2013年。一年的開始，忙

從去年，一路忙，就連一月份都忙。連出門outing 的時間也少了，除了初一去SKY PARK(只有四位男生，沒有女生)。感覺很久沒有打球了，希望過了年會有。

近來這几天都忙著做新年卡，共做了十張吧。昨天還弄到早上一點鐘呢！講回來，制做几張賀卡相當費時，也很費力。比起買現成的還要辛苦，也不見得會比較便宜。但很自已說，一點誠意，就是寄賀年不可缺少的一樣東西，希望朋友們能感受到這份祝福，祝福他們新年快樂。



新的一年，我想，只要相信就好。情人節卡片，我做了一卡 給了春敏 (她也講謝謝了)，雖然現在那張卡不知會在那個地方 (或許已經被循環了?) 但只要盡一份心意，就足夠了。做人要少一點要求，今年的情人節還是一個人過，那天我有作工，找東西忙是好。

新年要到了，除了必要去拜年的朋友以外，希望自已可以少一點去拜年(少了拿紅包的尷尬)，一個人或許多在家看書，寫毛筆，打maple 吧。



人生或許就是這樣，忙著忙著，一空下來，之前所忙的東西都記不得了。(寫這部落格(blog)就有這種感覺)。不記得，或許是好事。人生多記好的，就好。

GOD bless
慧臺

End of the world? Maybe? maybe not

For the whole of the month, I’ve been busy and busy about… what? , I seriously can’t tell a specific item. Maybe , it should be many things.

Maple wise , I been doing quite a bit of mapling , gathering “coins” to exchange for scrolls. On the upside, I got a one hand sword (112 ATT)after gathering 85 coins, so it’s time for me to look for a shield to increase my defense. On the downside , I accidentally “blew” my level 80 gloves( Blood Emperor) which has 8ATT, So I bought a level 10 work glove ( which has 3ATT) at 4Million Meso, and a shield at 40Million Meso, leaving me 10Million meso left. My dream of buying equipment of 100+million meso disappears (at least for quite some time).



My damage overall still reduces ( a loss of 5ATT , and 5ATT equals app. to 30str and it means 6 level up). But for this issue, I learnt something, anything that can be lost will be lost one day. When things are gone, we need to 看開 ，放下。

Today, 21 Dec 2012, will the world end today? No one will know until it comes. I think death is not something we can plan for. We as human logically can only plan to live( and not plan to die). As long we utilize every second ( given by GOD) to the fullest meaning, we should not regret. When time comes, it will come, there is no meaning guessing over this issue

i added the above thoughts. i COPIED from someone 's blog years ago. althought i didn;t see her for a long while, i though i should write a note here.

I will spend this few days (including Christmas) in Malaysia. From here, I wish all of my friends and people out there , Merry Christmas 2012

GOD bless everytime
慧台



nov blog + concert + ecp outing

16 NOV 2012


On this Friday, I went to the Chinese orchestra concert by invitation from Zhi Hui. From the previous year, I have seen many of my friends attending the 2011 concert, so I thought that I should see many familiar faces this year also. But then I was disappointed, Lijing wasn’t free and so were a few others.

I reached the venue (SOTA) at Douby Ghaut around 1915 hours. Rong Xing (Zhi Hui family) was late (due to traffic jam). I went into the concert at around 1920 hours and I had to sit alone as I couldn’t find any familiar faces.

The size of the concert is relatively smaller than the previous round, and so is the crowd. The music played was excellent (but not as good as the previous year). After the break, I went to the second floor to sit with Rong Xing and his family.

The play ended at 0920hours. Zhi Hui didn’t manage to find time for photo taking due to her admin duties. I managed to take one with rong Xing and left for home.





18 NOV 2012

This Sunday, a few of us schedule to meet at East Coast Park for outing( picnic plus cycling). I went to fetch Zhi Hui / Pei shi / Li min / Li jing / Zhi Zhong and Zi Xin (Zhi Hui’s friend) in the morning starting 0720am. We reached the venue around 0845am. Sheng Xi and his family reach the place a while later, while Lijing / Guo Liang took bus. As usual, Deming overslept again.


We started cycling around 0915 am. As both zhi hui and her friend did not know how to cycle, Guo liang and myself have to select a two person bike ( so that I could help “ferry zhi hui and Gou liang to (ferry) Zi Xin.)



It is a fresh new experience as I have never tried a two person bike before. It was not as easy as I previously thought; the peddling part is not so tough but rather on the balancing part. I took quite an effort to balance the bike while moving off (probably because Zhi hui is heavier than myself). As the result, I felt some hand pain rather than leg pain.

We cycled for 45minutes before taking a break at Bedok jetty, after which we do a U turn and went back, from there, we visited the safety park. It was the safety park that the police used to train school children in road safety. I remembered many years ago, I ever went to the park before when I was in primary school years ago. But today, the place look quite deserted. I believe that the place would be demolished very soon, so I should capture the opportunity to take some photos.

We ended the cycling at 1120am. Initially, we settle down at BBQ pit 28C for our picnic, since we didn’t not book any pit before hand, and some group came with the official booking slip, we shifted to 32C instead. Fortunately, the pit was not booked, and we stay until 1330hours.

During the period, we had a simple lunch of spaghetti (made by Yen Yi) and some other things. After that we played some games (including an ice breaking games and some beach volley ball). Around 1330 hours, it started to drizzle. We end our picnic and went home

Overall, I think the outing is a success. I personally thanks those who made the outing a success and those that cooked the delicious food.

Back to my thoughts, I have not been updating my blog for more than 6 weeks, I have been playing maple for some weeks till now, and done a 9 level up in total (from 155-164), compared to the previous year ( which I took 10 months to do 9 level ), I think is fast enough. I been working hard for a new single hand sword (and I should get it soon)

the last but not the least, i still managed to get a birthday gift from Li jing and co, still a nice one

God bless
Cheers
Huitai

my birthday 2012

I passed my 36th birthday in a relative quiet day. As usual , i took a leave so i could spend some time doing times that i favour on.

In the morning , after i visited my house to do some cleaning, i spent some time "寫毛筆"，as long as i have some improvement, i should be satisfied.

i bought a cake and some softdrink to celebrate my own birthday.i convinced myself that "一個人也可以很開心"

at night , i filled up my time doing some "important activities", in a way i wont have time to "胡思亂想", is a good thing

friends wise , i got 60+ facebook msg and 2-3 whatsapp greetings. there were a few who were busy and didn;t remember. the happy part is i got whatsapp greetings from "春敏"，the sad part is jiamin didn;t rememeber, my sister didn;t remember and so is Deming. i didn;t receive any gift till today, and probably i won;t receive anything this year, so i decided to buy a Gift for my self  . a book "那些年，我們一起追的女孩"。知足也是一件好事。

On thursday, i went out with Waimun to dinner at "八寶素食館"，we took mRT and alight at city hall Mrt (ending up walking 20 minutes to the venue)

the dinner were very good, just that the dishes were a little too much(4 dishes + 1 desert). i heard that he just managed to get himself a girlfriend, and he do encourage me to step out to find one. athough( i tell myself), things weren;t so simple , but i must thank him for the spiritual encouragement ( and say amen)

Now come to the final part of this blog , thats my wishes for 2012. I hope i could work hard on the things i learning now, spent more time with my parents, and be contended all of the time. Relationship could not be rushed, as long i tried ( by saying hello to the person i like), if she does not respond,  that's it. i just wish i could worry less..

GOD bless all the time
cheers
huitai

親戚的婚禮

在九月22日，我和我的母親一起回馬來西亞參加我小表舅的結婚典禮。地點是在吉隆坡，但我們先回馬六甲。我的母親星期六有作半天的工，所以我們到下午兩點才出門。路上還算順暢，除了關卡有一點塞(氣車比較多)。




到了 larkin 巴士車站經已經是1550分了。很幸運的能搭到1600分的巴士。到了馬六甲已經1915分了。晚在二姨家過夜。早上到巴士車站搭10.30去吉隆坡。我的小舅載我們去他的家坐。之後本來要進入酒店，但沒人可以載我們去。只好等到1815分才到酒樓去參加婚宴。

到那里已是1920分了，只有一桌是素食。我們有七個人，加上女方的親戚有兩位坐過來(共有九位)，食物也相當不錯。到了2045左右，菜才開始上桌。菜色都很不錯。

之後，表舅載我們去住酒店。到了第二天早上，本來打算要去雲頂走一下，但我表舅來我們的時候，已經是早上十點了。他對去云頂的路不熟，只會載我們去巴士車站。到那里已十一點了，最早的票也要十二點，再加上一個半小時的車程才會到山上。最後，大家決定不去云頂了。之後，表舅載我們去吃飯，然後去新的車站。

到了新的車站也1315分了，那車站似乎很大，本來以為可以走一個多小時，所以本來買下午兩點的票，改去三點二十分的巴士。但事實，我們只走了十五分鐘就走完了。地方雖大，但大部份的店面都是空的。能走的實在有限。 結果坐在椅子等了一個小時。

到家2300分了，這次的行程還可以。 寫到這里。   晚安    

九月的秋天 (2012)

一个忙碌的七月，接下来又是忙碌的八月，现在是九月了。从夏天忙着、忙着，不觉来到了秋天。(忙碌时) 日子很快就过去了。所作的东西，有的成功，但也有不成功的。有些人，我帮不上忙的。有些事，没法成功。有时候，只能和自已说，尽力就好。能改变自已，不一定就能改变他人。这样就很足够了(是吗？)




很快的，我的生日又要到了。不是不想庆祝，是怕没有人来。不是不期待，而是怕希望背后所要承受的失望。22号和23号，我会和我的母亲去马来西亚参加亲人的婚礼。24号才回到新加坡，25号会拿一天假在家休息。想约的人也尝试去约了，会来吗? (做人要现实一些)大概不会。最多得到一些(不来的) 理由，不论是直接或是婉转，但结局都是一样的(不来)。习惯三十多年的生日一个人过，今年也不会例外。一个人也可以很开心 ( 道德经有云：「知足不辱、知止不殆」)孔明有云：「谈泊以明志，宁静以至远)」



最近政府有考虑让单身人士购买新组屋。我想，大概不会是我 (至少我要先结婚才会想买房子)，反正一个人也用不到住这麽大的房子，能和父母住，已经很好了。什麽事，能保持现状就很好了。



今年的愿望，我想每天都可以忙碌。忙到饿了(就吃)，忙到累了(就睡)，忙着「重要」的事情。和自已说，少一些愿望 (是好的) 。一句话把自已的愿望讲完，那就是「日就月将」，每天都有成就，每月都有进步。



开心就好

慧台

blog01 for august 2012

I had been relatively busy for the past two months, that I couldn’t find time to play games on Facebook . for the second time , I have quited café world again ( both my account ). Probably my sub account would be totally useless if I were to quit all the games.




Looking backwards, to be busy on the important things in life is a good thing after all.



In the month of august, I had several friends which birthday falls in august and I think I would be nice just to drop a line or so wishing them happy birthday



Waimun (4 august ), I don’t have time to meet up with him recently , do wish him a great birthday



Huimin (7 august) , wish her all the best in her studies and stay pretty always



Ziyu (14 august), guiping didn’t managed to find time to do any outing (birthday) for her (and zhi hui), so I could only drop a line here , wish her all the best in what she do



Shi jie ( second half of the month), just hope her all the best as well and have a excellent birthday :)



National day coming, its 47th birthday!! Lets wish singapore a great year ( winning the first individual medal at olympics ) among other achivements .



Just a though, Singapore independence is coming to half a decade. I wonder what will happen 3 years later ? will singapore population hit 6million. ?



For a thought this month , I would like to pen some nice words to encourage myself



「談泊以明志，寧靜以致遠」to be quiet is always a nice thing

GOD bless

七月的感想

On 3 July, I managed to find time to play soccer with my colleagues again. I done a bit of running on the pitch, my performance was a little better than the previous game (that’s what I think). On the bad side, this is the second time; I damaged my glasses again (when I clashed with jovin). So I had to play without glasses for most of the time, but then, most of the time, the ball isn’t passed to me , so unable to see so clearly isn’t so important. After all, our team wins few games, nothing else matters.


When I had a chance to sit down, Benson found opportunity for me to talk to one of the female colleagues, JAN. I couldn’t think of anything to talk to her, and she was relatively quiet. For once I just want to jolt down a thought (in Chinese)

 因为没有缘，所以没有话可以交谈。也因为没有话可以交谈，所以没有缘。

Maybe is fate, or maybe is my character (that I am still single). But I chose to worry less, being single could be a nice thing (at times).

Recently, I have increased my time on reading. To be busy on the important things is a good thing. 詩曰：「日就月將」解：每天都有成就，每月都有進步」

來臨的九月，我大概會回馬國一下，生日的時候，就不在新加坡了。
什麼時候，知足，就好。

God bless
Huitai

A walk at the tree top at Mac Ritchie Reservoir

在七月一日，我有机会和几位朋友 (特别是从马来西亚的如彩和妙谨) 到了麦里芝蓄水池旁边的麦里芝吊桥走一走。本来约了多几位马国的朋友来。但临时出现了状况。勇洁加班，德和 因睡过头所以没有出来，义升的学校有家长日。想想一下，和自已说，两位也已经很好了 。

我从兀兰载到两位马国的朋友，到麦里芝吊桥的停车场已是1040分了。走不到一下子，就下起雨来。还好有带雨伞。我们和其他人集合的时间大概是十一点。共有12 位出席 (德明迟到) ，淑仪没来，春敏也没有 (也是意料中的事) 。

大家吃了苑怡、丽晶和素华做的早餐 (也差不多可以说是午餐了) 开始这次的行程。路不太容易走，也因下雨的原故，地上也比较湿。都是山路，也比较难走。第一次走吊桥，感觉还不错。只不过，没有比看照片的感觉来得好。只能讲，这次是一个很好的经验。


走了一圈，到休息的亭子时候，也是12.15分了。明德虽然到了 (但会错地方), 只好请他走过来和我们会合 (结果他多走了差不多五公里)


之后，大家才下山。到回停车场的时候，才1420分。大家不想这麽早回，有人建议去喝 k, 但是租不到「香房」，所以去不成。最后才决定去金文泰 (吃午饭和打保龄球) 。


这是我第二次打保龄球了，成绩和上一次不分上下 (51和66分) 。到了0640分才载那马国的朋友回到兀兰。


这次的外出就是为六月生日的「天伟」、「勇洁」、「妙谨」、「淑仪」还有其他几位朋友。希望他们都有美好的前途。



GOD BLESS

june blog 2012

已經很久沒有寫BLOG了(兩個月了吧)，就來寫一個吧，用來回顧這兩個月的得與失，或許也是一件好事


近來，有好几位朋友，打電話沒有接，簡訊也沒有回應。難道是簡訊在半途中就不見了？真的不得而知。不打去，過了很久，他們也不曾打電話來和自已聯係。大概是緣份已盡了吧，失去的東西，再也追不回了。只能珍惜現有的東西。

感情方面，一段時間，以為好像要來了 (但實際是沒有來)，現在又走了(實際上本來就沒有)。只是感覺上的起落，開始的希望跟著後來的失望。只能和自已說，做人只要少想，就少煩惱。一個人也會很開心。

最近，手機壞了。向麗晶借了她的妹妹(麗慧)的備用電話，還用了三個禮拜吧，最後在上個禮拜在IT FAIR 買到了HTC ONE X 。花了300多元，只希望電話可以用到18個月以上。

這個六月，讓我想到自已常講的一句話，「不想過，也得過。不要過，也過得差不多了。」


做人只要努力就好。傳曰：「誠惡惡，知刑之本、誠善善，知敬之本。惟誠感神，達乎于民，故不怒而威，不言而信。誠、德之本也。詩曰：「鼓鐘于官，聞聲于外。)

 這個月是淑儀「素魚」的生日，希望她能過很好的每一天。

就寫到這里。什麼事要樂觀就好。GOD Bless



慧臺

六月18日

Visit to sentosa RWS ( 21 apr 2012)

This is the second time; I had the opportunity to visit the expensive theme park. In the morning, I took a bus to Mac Donald’s at west coast. Since I didn’t take breakfast, I choose to come one hour later (at 0920hours). At 0930, our GM took a simple speech, followed by a lucky draw. As usual, I wasn’t lucky enough to be drawn for any of the 20 prize on offer. But the management decides to give a consolation prize (shopping vouchers) to those who didn’t win from the above lucky draw, so at least I got something in the end.

At 10:00am, we took the pre-arranged bus to RWS and reached the place around 1020 am. It’s been raining for the whole morning, and still drizzling when we reached sentosa. We took a group photo with the big group.

After collecting the tickets, everyone dispersed to enjoy the visit. Since I was alone, I managed to get a few others (Alan Chim / Mr. Goh /Khor / Ah nai / Ms Jan Chan and a few others) to walk together. I felt fortunate to be in a large group (thus making the day more interesting)

For the whole day, we visited several place (7 places) of interest. I don’t think I should write all of them in detail, maybe just a few outstanding ones.

Firstly, we visited the “Lights, camera, action” by Steven Spielberg (some name I never heard of). The hurricane is pretty ok (looking a bit real), but I didn’t really get wet (since I was standing on the last row)

One of the most interesting parts is doing a few roller coaster rides (which I did not try up during the previous visits). The first is the transformers coaster ride. The graphics was amazing real (as seems the robots were so close to us). The ride wasn’t as scary as its looks (when some ups and downs and a few sudden forward surge and falling)



I have also tried on the roller coaster in the Sci Fri city. Its was to known to be the most challenging roller coaster in the park, I tried once on the “blue line” (I didn’t try on the red one).It was rather frightening in the initial 5 sec. I managed to grasp hold of the securing handles well, things are still ok. But I slightly twisted my neck in the process.

The third roller coaster was the revenge of the mummy at the Ancient Egypt. One of my colleagues (Benson) was being tricked to believe the ride was smooth with only forward and backward. The ride turns up with some scary fall and fires which nearly scare Benson out of his life. I got some scare also (but not as much as the previous roller coaster.)

Other than the above rides, we visit some shows. The most interesting part is the Shrek 4D, while the most boring should be Donkey Live (I guess). I didn’t do the Jurassic park ride (as I was afraid of getting wet)

Since there is no vegetarian, I just took some soft drink, and we spent most time hopping from one show to another, no one was willing to spare time visiting the souvenirs shop around the place, thus I didn’t buy anything either.



We ended the trip at 1730 hours, and from there I headed for home.



Looking backwards, I had an enjoyable day with my colleagues. I believe that good colleagues’ relationship is very important in any company. I started to participate in some of the soccer activities they organize (that is a nice thing)



Finally for the month of April, is the birthday for ruixian. I should just drop a note... wish her all the best. :)

清明 2012

在3月30日，我和我的外公回到馬六甲參于清明的事情。




在4月1日早上，我6點左右起床。我二姨早已起床，把祭品(斋米粉和菜包) 准備好了，

到了7點才出門上山拜祖先 。



才15分鐘的路程就到了山上，首先拜祭的是我的太婆(外公的外婆)。這次出席的人不比三年前來得多。只有我的二舅(和他一家四人)(少了麗君表妹)，三舅、四舅、五舅，二姨和她的儿子(漢忠)，共10人而已。


開始的工作就是除草和打掃墓目旁邊。工作不會太難，或許上一年除草方面作得好，今年的野草不會長的太大棵，很容易就拔掉了。之後有拜祭祖先和燒「金銀紙」，當中的「錢币」

有好几大張的「一仟億的鈔票」和很多「一百億的鈔票」 ，算起來的財富，比世界首富還要有錢几百倍 ( 如果地府真的可以用的話) 。再用心想一下，我們都知道，如果一個國家沒有节制的印刷鈔票，它的鈔票必定會受到贬值，而變得不值錢 ( 比如二戰時，日本的香蕉錢)。


每年的清明日，每個人都燒非常多(沒有節制) 的鈔票。有沒有可能到地府時，變不一堆不值錢的廢紙呢？(貶值得太利害)，這是後代的人們應該想到的地方吧 。



之後有到我的外婆那里打掃和祭拜。在那里的野草反而比較難除掉 ( 或許是上一年除不夠好的緣故？祭拜好之後，有拍了一張合照。從當中只能希望明年會更多人來參于清明的活動

之後便去吃午飯，然後去拜祭自已的「小姨」，我二舅有說大輩是不可以拜「後輩」的，所以就沒有參于 。有這樣的說法嗎？祭拜不是一種尊敬的心而已嗎？(自已也不是很清楚)



回想一下，清明的意思對我而言，就是慎终追远的意思。時時反省，記得祖先所遺留的教育和美好的德行，終身不要忘記，發揚祖先的德行。這大概就是清明的意思吧。這同時教導「後輩」如何行「孝」。

慧臺上

Mar blog 2012

i had been very sick over the past week, with coughs and fever coming on and off. i had been feeling weak and sleepy over the days ( maybe I should take some tonics (進補？)


two day ago , my cough worsen that I have to see the doctor at the polyclinic (the second times I visited a doc this year). The doc gave me 2 days MC　after some simple checks . I spent most of the two days sleeping at home

time do fly fast, it seems that I didn’t have any contribution this month. Hope I could get better , spend more time on reading..

thoughts apart, I still hope for a relationship once here and there.. is it possible?

29 march is the birthday for weixin , I hope that she is doing fine..


GOD bless

Feb 29 ( Feb blog 2012)

It has been a quiet month, thus having nothing to update for the month Feb. I thought I should write one for a special day (29 Feb) which happens once in 4 years.




I did not manage to send any flowers or cards on this valentine, maybe I should look forward to next year (or the next )



About café world, I quit café world on my main account so I could play less games



I started playing maple again, but I shouldn’t be playing as much as before. I managed to level to 152 a week ago. Guess what, I probably can only do a 2 percent level per day. With this speed, I probably can only do a level every 50 days. But then it’s ok,

我想，「做人只求做正確的事就可以了，沒有其他要求。」

Bai nian 2012 at my Sec school mate house

This year, i managed to find time to visit Guowei House (27 jan), Gouliang & Weixiong house (28 Jan).

Siwei drove me to Guowei 's new house in Sembawang. It's was a 5 storey bungolow. it was the first time in my life, i have seen such high class bungolow. Guess what, i probably won't have any chance ( not even slighest) of owning a such apartments  haha :)

around 10pm ( i think ), we started to play some cards games. Gambling i though to be a very addictive thing. one always thought he should be playing the last set. after that , another set , and another. i started winning in the early stage, but because , i didn;t stop playing in time , i lose some dollars overall.
we end the day at 0130 am and Siwei sent me home.

on 28(sat), i had appointment with my ex boss ( Mr soon). so i only managed to reach Gouliang house around 14.30 (instead of 12:00). I was a little surprised and Glad to see Raine. i didn;t managed to talk to her (just a head node) as she and her friends left after 15 minutes. i do sent her a Fb note hopping to get her phone number [ is ok if i didn;t get response :) ]

we sat at Gouliang house ( to play cards until 16:00) . Siwei suggest we should take a short visit to Weixiong house nearby, we left after 15 minutes.

today (sat), i had a much better luck winning a bit  ( probably blessed by raine ?[ i guess also] ) . from the card games, i have a slight thoughts, the most difficult is you thought your card is almost perfect, but in the end of the set, some one is better than you , winning all the money. On the other hand, if the cards is very lousy, i would have given up way in the first round ( saving some cash)

Life probably is the toughest when you thought you are almost there, but you are just not there, you dont get it. Love as it, the difficult part is coming in second. and getting nothing..

but looking backwards, i always regret more if i had not tried compare to have tried but were in vain. so (i tell myself), as long i tried to say something ( email or Facebook or anything), It's ok i didn;t get any response. afterall , its better to look forward.

Final part, i got several ang bao's from my buddies this new year, maybe i still get them next year? ( at the least, i should be single ) 

GOD bless  :) 
huitai

西游記(新年初二拜年)

今年的拜年計划（從東到西），相當順利。有九個人來參于這次的拜年。其中有麗晶、麗慧、德明、志賢、wenting、天偉、weiji , 宗和 ，和來自馬來西亞的妙意，加上自已就是十位。因為人員太多，自已的車擠不下，還好有桂林幫忙載。:)




一早便去到兀蘭去載妙意(載不到德明，只好請他自已去)。第一站，我們到了利吉叔叔家拜年(德明睡過頭，所以去不成利吉的家. 呆了45分鐘之後，才動身去天偉家，從榜鵝到加冷，因為路不熟，走了一些冤枉路。還好桂林懂一些路，走了30分鐘，才到天偉家。



在天偉家呆到1215分，本來是吃飯時間，但天偉家樓下的「素」沒有開。一方面，大家也不是很餓，便決定去下個站。本來想去義順(發成的家)，但他要到下午才有空。這次也沒有去到豪喜的家(佳敏)，明年吧。下一站便到兀蘭(志賢的家) 。因為大家都很餓了，志賢的父母准備了一些炒飯，和炒「東粉」，因此，大家也解決了一餐。在志賢的家，拍了第一張合照。



第四站來到了wenting 的家，桂林有事要忙，先回了。wenting 的父母都很友善，坐了30分鐘才離開，宗和有事便走了，剩下八個人(便擠進自已的車)

到了第五站，來到黃思源 (子芸)家，在她的家，拍了第二張合照。之後，又到妙意和我們說見再，剩下的七個人。這次的兀蘭行，因為子強沒空，去不成他的家，希望明年會有機會吧 :)



第六站，來到了自已家(裕廊)。到自已家已經是1645分了，這是第一組來自已家拜年的人。家里雖然有些亂，但人家也不是很在意。雖然在前面的几個拜年，都吃了多糕點，但到自已家時，家里那一點食品，還是有人拿來吃，也是好事。
:)


第七站，到司徒家(裕廊)。時間非常有限。坐了20分才有走了。



第八站去漢德家，仁暉正來房里打電動，打得很緊張，所有沒有出來。但漢德也很熱情地招待我們。



第九站(最後一站)，到了聖喜(麗晶/麗慧)家。聖喜有准備晚飯，吃了才回。

到1945分的時候，本來應該自已送wenting 回兀蘭，但已自很累了，加上有事要趕回家，沒辦法送wenting, 還好有天偉和weiji 幫助。



以上是整天的經過，本來准備拜年到五點就結束，結果到八點才好。

感謝朋友們，又渡過一個非常有義思的一天。



明年會是如果呢，有一種感覺，明年還是「東游記」比較好，從西到東。可能可以去瑞祥的家(正華)，或去睿嫻家(白沙)? 只是想而已

什麼事，大概要等到今年低吧    :)

新年前感想

近來，自已的颈项顯的很警棚， 轉一下都會覺得痛。這几天都睡得不是很好。算起來，這問題有大概三個禮拜了。有朋友幫自已推拿好几次，但都沒辦法好到完。看來，今晚要找專家推拿一下(又是花錢日)，只希望今晚可以睡好一些。




講到過年，今年的新年特別早來。忙了大半個月的大掃除，都應該丟掉的東西，都丟了。過了的事情就要放下，以全新的心情來面對新的一年。這個禮拜天應該會出外走一下，買一雙鞋子。有一兩樣新的東西，就很足夠了。



新的一年要去誰的家拜年，到現在都沒有概念。可能時間到，問題自然得到解決。和自已說，大概有三個可能，如果只有自已一個人，就去固定的几位朋友家拜家。其他時間，在家看書。

如果有兩三位朋友一起拜年，可以駕車走遠一點。第三個可能性，有很多位出來拜年，或許可以去很多地方 (但機會不高)。



新的一年，多自我要求。多看書(近來比較多時間在看「春秋」)，多時間朗读一些詩句( 改善自已的「口吃」的不足。多學「毛筆」。只要把時間忙在「學習」的地方，就不會胡思亂想。今年的motto ，「有多少人，做多少事」，做事只求專心，一個人也會有成就。詩曰：「日就月將」，每天都有成就，每月都有進步。



GOD BLESS

慧臺

回顧2011，展望2012

一下子，365天就這樣渡過了。今天有了第一次看「concert 」(ruixiang) 的經驗，人生第三次慶祝生日( 好像自已才三歲而已)，和朋友打了几次的羽毛球(有運動才會健康)

回顧一下，告訴自已，或許我也有一些地方有了一點點的進步( 就是一點點)，開始有在開書 ( 看了韓詩外傳)，開始學寫毛筆。牌氣比較好了( 還是那麼一點點)。

不足的地方，還是很blur 。常常忘了東西放那里。做事不是很專心，會有分心而使事情辦不好的時候，特別是看到「美女」的時候。有時候，會忘了自已所應該作的東西。

2012有什麼展望呢？希望做事要認真一些，少想、少看「美女」的感覺，特別是那些「沒機會」。所謂的「不見可欲，使心不亂」

2012年，希望花一些時間，學煮一些簡單的菜。最少需要的時候，可以派得上用場。

2012年，好的東西要增加，不好的東西要減少。對自已要嚴一些，對別人要寬一些。詩經：「日就月將」，意思是「每天都有成就，每月都有進步」。

告訴自已，2012是自已的年。自已努力就好，不會談戀愛的。2013 才想吧(或2014也可以) 。樂觀就好，新加坡要等到2018 才可能打進世界杯。什麼事，隨緣就好。

努力 
慧臺

first lunch out with colleagues at AZBIL

今天12月21日，終于有機會和同事一起吃午飯。一起吃飯的有jovin / Estelle / Geraldine / Hebe. 我們 去到 jurong east Trade hub （第一次知道那里有素）

第一次能和美女（Estelle) 吃飯，才知道她下個禮拜走了（換工作），心里同時有了開心但也有難過。只希望這几天還能和她一起吃飯，就好　。

和自已說　，「好也好，不好也好〕　

慧臺上

BbQ at safra Boon lay

On 18 dec, I had a very memorable BBQ at SAFRA; Aunty Jingxu booked a pit during midday (11am-3pm). I bought some charcoal, fetched Lijing and her sisters, and reached the place around 1110am.The place was pretty spacious with 2 pits sharing the same area. (Fortunately, the user from the other pit didn’t turn up, so we got the full use of the place.




A total of 17 friends turn up for the BBQ, Jinxu and her family(3), Yi hui bought along his friends (Anna and Shawn)(3), Zhizhong came with Gou liang(2), Sky coming from Woodlands(1), zhi hui and her mother ( 2) Lijing and her sisters (3), sheng liang , Fulai and cang hai. We spent quite a bit of time setting up the fire for BBQ pit. 10 minutes into the BBQ, it started to rain. It had wetted the charcoal so we have to throw them away and start a new fire. Some of our friends didn’t know the way, so I went to out to bring them ( cang hai / sky chong)



The weather has not been good with quite a few spells of rain coming and going, we use covers and umbrellas to protect the fire . By the time we settle down, it’s almost 1pm. we started the day with some ice breaking games. The game was simple as most of us knew each other quite well



Later, as the rain stopped for half an hour or so, we managed to go the basketball court to play captain ball ( 6 vs. 6 ), I had Anna , wen xin，Li min, zhizhong and sheng liang as a group. We were losing at the start, and managed to get back to the game getting a draw, we went back to the BBQ at 1445 hours, in which it started raining again. We posed a group photo , finished the food , and disperse for home



Overall, I guess The BBQ is a success, and all of us enjoyed very much, thanks to Aunty Jinxu for the coordination work, the food bought by Aunty Peishi and Lijing. Although the weather weren’t very good (raining most of the time), but we managed to gain valuable experience, and I believe we can do a better outing next time. We didn’t manage to get a few of my friends (Wan ling and , Wan Ting / Chong RI and his Bro) to come as they were busy with other things, and I also forgot to call Renhui. Hope these friends can turn up next time .

That ‘s all for now

GOD BLESS

Huitai

歡送天偉去國服役

在12月4日的傍晚，大家(有14人左右)約好去「八寶」素食館去大吃一餐。能看到淑儀（素魚）來參于，雖然有一些意外，但也是一件好事。

到「八寶」的時候，大概是六點半左右了，我們有十四個人（婉霞和婉娟遲到），挤在一張大桌子。因為位子不夠放「大的椅子」，所以有好几位仁兄「也包括自已」改坐圓椅子。

開始點菜的時候，大家可能不是很有經驗，一方面有怕食物吃不完，所以點的菜大多數是「中形」的。有一些好吃的菜很明顯不夠分，當婉霞和她的妹妹到的時候，我們又叫多三樣菜。我們好几位都有帶相機，但感覺比較多時間是在拍食物的照片。

weiji有買天偉的禮物，所以我就幫忙送。這餐吃得很開心，食物也不會太貴。吃完的時候，自已刷卡的方式付款。本來是11人份出錢，麗晶算到10人份，結果自已竟然沒有出到錢！還好，大家之後有去orchard Rd 拍照，順便吃冰淇淋。那冰淇淋的錢就從自已的身上拿吧　　：）　　

拍了一個多小時後，大家便「打道回府」。第一次和麗晶／yenyi 坐circle line. 感覺會坐南北線快一些吧。

天偉進兵之後，或許outing 會減少吧，有時間，自已就多看書。自已最近在想的那位「女孩」，過了這outing, 大概要到明年才會見面了，少想還是好事。所謂「不見可欲，使心不亂」

這里也祝福天偉能為國效勞，能從男孩變成正真的男人　。:)

cheers
huitai