Team building for 2024 (nov30)

It is the first company event (team building ) since 2020 when the covid starts. Compare to the previous team building which is being held at bintan during 2017 , this round is held at locally at Sentosa ( in which I do not need to have a passport to participate in this event.). probably it might be a good thing, if this event would take place outside Singapore , I probably would not be able to participate.

For this round of team building , the company has decided to split the company into 6 teams ( from what I know, it might not be accurate) . on the 30th of nov , I was being chosen to attend the 3rd round of team building. A total of 24 people was to attend the compulsory event, and most of us choose to meet at Jurong east to take company transport to the venue. Looking at the name list , probably more than 50 percent of the colleagues were new to me , and many of the staffs that comes in only from the last few months.

The bus reached Sentosa at around 0900am (Amara Sanctuary ). We were being led to a indoor hall where all the activities take place (100% indoor). By the way, there were heavy rain for that morning , any outdoor activities would not be possible . the event started with the host introducing himself (Bryan). From there we had some breakfast, and around 0930, we were split into groups based on our birthday ( date and month ) . Coincidently, one of the colleagues have the same birthday as me (Bryan Bong). We played some ice breaking games with everyone saying out three component mainly “Name” ,” Favorite food” and “ favorite place of holiday”. From there , we played some games , so that we can remember and understand our colleagues a little bit more. Although my memory was pretty bad , but I can say that the game is a good attempt to know my colleagues a little bit more

Firstly, we learn the four stages of team development are: Forming, Storming, Norming and Performing, followed by two games emphasizing the importance of storming and norming. It is important that a good leader could evenly delicate jobs responsibility to each and every one in the team without prejudice . and everyone could play a part and do their best. I wasn’t meant to be a leader, but I do managed to follow, so the team can accomplished the overall task .

We had a lunch break at around 1215pm. The vegetarian bento didn’t came on time, so I had to wait for a while. After the meal , there were no outdoor place we can visit , so we can only take a small rest in the room .

Afternoon , we had some team bonding games before coming to the most important activities of the day , the bicycle building. We was group to 4 teams to assembly 5 bicycles (for charity purpose). I wasn’t knowledgeable at understanding bicycle parts , but my colleague Mr Yusri was pretty good at it . I could help out in very minor jobs and most of the time, stand beside to watch them do. At the end of the day, we managed to produce 5 bikes for the kids home.

As the end of the day, the host thanks everyone for their effort and we left for home at around 1645 hours. Looking backwards on the event, I guess it would be a successful one. Looking forward, although I don’t expect to see any potential improvement on my colleague relationship in the near future, but it is still necessary to keep an open heart, and in the event if any colleague wants to have lunch with me, I should be able to say yes.

写到这里，不会谈恋爱的，一个人必须很开心

GOD bless all the time , 慧台

十一月的感想（努力再努力）

经历了炎热的十月分，这个月开始变得有些凉，有几天下雨，所以没有骑脚车去上班，而是改搭地铁上下班。这两个礼拜，总共骑了5到六次的脚车上下班，自己的体力也是有些进步。不能出国的自己来说，只能乐观的想，不能去日本，常常去一下日本花园走走，也是很好的（唯一）选择。

这个月稍微比较静，本来月头想要去武吉知马山走走，但因为某某原因，也或许是自己比较懒惰，结果没有去成。这个月剩下的周末都被佛堂的节目占去了，或许接下来的行程只能等到12月分了。这个月开始要准备新的题目，幸福的人生（用旧的资料，但找新的故事）。借着这样的机会，能够在诸事特别不顺的2024年的自己给与不少的振作和提醒。要相信一个人不幸福不来自与物质上的拥有，而是心灵上的满足。（少则得，多则惑）

幸福，不是一种状态，而是一种心态。幸福是对快乐、美好的感知力。感知不到，幸福再多，也不觉得幸福。想要收获幸福，首先放平心态。心态顺了，一切都顺。心态好了，看什么都幸福。凡事不必苛求，来了就来。遇事不要皱眉，笑了就笑了。结果不强求，能做对的东西就很好了，生活就是一种简单，心平就气和了。即是人生过半，只要我坚持自己的戒律，保持内心的状态，人生一样可以活得精彩。

十一月10号是父亲离开六周年了。没有时间去自度庵去拜祭他的灵位，最少也要买一些水果去他的家拜祭他吧

案件来说，上个月有问了一下负责的警员，但没有得到答案。通过那警员的答复，只能感觉这案件还会拖很长很长的时间。如果明年一月15号之前没有结果的话，明年的农历年就只能在新加坡度过了。学习二胡，还在进行中，也开始拉一些音乐。能有一点的进步，就不好埋怨了。

游戏方面，亲密度和魅力值已经冲到接近六万了，也花了不少钱，买了好一些“皮肤” ，可以用来涨势力。在博艺招婿中，拿到了八强的奖励，也已经很不错了。这个月提早来的至尊赛（11月13 到12月12日）可以拿来冲分，这个月还是会花不少钱，有可能到月底有机会拿到V9 的机会。有些东西要重复和自己说，能用钱解决的问题，就不是问题。

对未来的要求要少一点，生命是很短暂又无常。明天会发生什么事，没有人会知道。想想何必为明天而过于担心？说不定到了哪一分钟，死神就出现在自己面前，所有的事物不想放下都不不得不放下。以一句日语话来说 ，人生中只有一件事件可以确定地预测。这意味着有一天我会死。 （人生で確実に予見できる出来事が 一つだけある。それは自分がいずれ死ぬということである）。只能在活着的时候，开心的面对每一件人事物境，努力付出完成自己的使命。和自己说，如果哪一天，真的离开这里，我希望把全部的人都忘记。也希望大家把我给忘了 （来世があったら、帰ってこない。私はみんなを忘れてゆく。だから、みんなも私のことを忘れてね）

最后，还是要放一些日本行的照片（广岛）。希望未来的日子还会继续不断的努力自己的修行，不要去想任何女孩，这辈子是注定单身的。也不会有什么朋友，所有的外出只能靠自己。常常想着一个人的日子多么的好，人偶尔孤僻一下，也会是好事。多看经典，多学日语，多练习二胡。能忙的东西是很多的，不要为得不到的东西而沮丧。一句话来说，永言配命，自求多福。永远努力着自己来配合天的要求，就是为自己寻求多种的福报

写到这里，不会谈恋爱的，也不会有朋友，一个人一定很开心

GOD bless all the time , 慧台