last blog for year 2013

很快的，2013年又来到了尾声，总好象过了一个礼拜了。回顾一年的事请

读书方面，上半年读了一些书，下半年又好像停下来了，要勤劳很难，要懒惰却很容易。写毛笔也停了三个月了吧。

感情方面，我终于花了些钱，但会有机会吗？大概不会。和自已说，只有等到 2017年过后了，只希望新加坡在2018 的世界杯会有希望

我在想了整整六个月之后，终于取消我家里的网际网络了。这一次主要的目的也不是要省钱 ，虽然会省到一点。最重要的是，我可以多用一些时间看书，有进步是好的。这次的取消，希望最少可以维持两个月到六个月。我准备好了四本可以读的书，大概两月都读不完。但诗经不是其中一本，因为太难读了，但还会读一点，只希望把「国风」读好再说，「小雅」和「大雅」就要留到下半年了。

打游戏 (MAPLE), 打了又停，停了又打，我的GUILD 的人好象都没玩了( RETIRE), 天天只是自已打自已。应该换GUILD 吗？看就等下个网络到来之后，才来想吧

2013年的最后一天，要学得开心，多珍惜所拥有的一切，不要去想那还未得到的人、事、物。有时间做一下打扫(新年要到了)，真的没用到的东西就应该可以丢掉了，收拾心情，和自已说，明年的自已一定要更好

一句话，不要忘了，那就是「日就月将」。每天都有成就，每月都有进步

最後，要准備去香港的旅程。到現在為止，自由行還是沒有著落。不好擔心了，船到橋頭自然直。只希望可以買到「春敏」「滄海」「孟錦」「德明」和「國樑」的禮物，也會買几個紀念品。

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祝大家新年行大運，馬到功成

慧台

blog 02 dec 2013

On the 17th Dec, I work a little late till 1900 hours. I met up with a promotion booth (Singapore heart center) to promote donations; my immediate response would to try to walk faster and away from the booth. But I wasn’t able to walk fast enough or far enough before a pretty lady stopped me. Just a simple 10 minutes talk is enough to “con” me into signing up a monthly donation (the lowest option); I guess I’m just unable to reject the request of the lady. On the other hand, I didn’t have the courage to ask photo to be taken (so I could not post here) but thing is ok

Looking backwards, seeing beautiful girls is still my soft spot(五色讓人目盲), I should try to overcome this weakness (if not I might end up losing more). But for the sake of doing charity, it is still a good thing.

Maple wise, I have spent some real money (10 buck + 35 bucks) buying mesos (1.5 + 4 billion), and I managed to up my dmg to 9K-13K (from 5k to 7k), something I would NEVER achieve by training alone.

Finances wise, I have been spending quite a bit this two months, maybe I should start reducing my expense starting next year. Talking about internet, there is a guy from SingTel coming to my house to promote Mio TV and Open net. I Do in need of open net but not MIO TV, since no one was home to watch TV most of the time.

I still managed to say ok to the upgrade, but things took a drastic turn 1 week later. The SingTel personnel call a week later, trying to fix an installation date (2 separate visits to do 2 hour installation). The timing was only on weekdays 4-6pm latest , my mum can only make it after 530pm, and the personnel refuse to accede to our request ( as it is done by sub contractor).I refuse to give a installation date, since the booking for 2014 is not open yet. One day later, another service personnel called and advice that I should cancel the upgrade (which I agreed). So in the end, I didn’t get the open Net that I needed, and the good thing is, i'm not taking Mio TV also ( save money)

For now, I seriously consider if I need to cancel my entire broadband internet at home (for up to 3 months)? A good part is I could be saving up to 100 dollars during this time, and I could “force” myself to do more reading, as I would not longer have internet at home ( I still could use my phone to surf net , but not to play online games)

Decision is tough but neccessary, i need to think hard again

GOD always bless huitai

Decision making 2013

I got a call from eSynchrony (match making service) to query on the service I applied a few weeks ago, and I didn’t really leave any impression and that time (application), since I have joined several other (free) dating sites and all of them came to nothing.

The lady (Calina) spent 30minutes trying to convince me the service is good and would be able to find me a soul partner. She gave me some advice about my uploaded photos (which I don’t look mature enough), but then I unable to find any “more matured” photo (or those wearing long sleeve) since I had not really worn any of them to work.

She also advised me to relax on my requirement , whether on age ( to downgrade to not so important ) but I was a little ( just a little) worried that I might be matched to a lady older than myself.

On race wise, she ask if I could consider non-Chinese, I replied by saying that I would not be able to accept my future partner unable (or even dislike) to speak mandarin. On this part, I don’t think I would want to take a step backwards, but in the end, if I unable to find a partner as a result of this “requirement”, I would glad to accept as fate and remain single for the rest of my life.

Finally come to the most important issue, MONEY The subscription was 450 dollars for minimum 3 dates (after a 100 dollar rebate), I seriously DO NOT think is expensive (provided if I can really find a partner). But the question I want to ask myself that is what if I can’t find one? What if I got rejected again? Can I still find one if I had not spent the money? What is the future looking like for me?

Future seems bleak for me when coming to marriage. There are always worries if I able to live with my future partner, or my future partner living with my mum, whether she can take vegetarian (myself a vegetarian), I always liken my chance of marriage to some impossible task like Singapore lions winning World Cup (probably wont happen anytime before 2100), or Taiwan unifying with China (probably after next two generations)

Unfortunately, I had only a week to consider, I do not know if this is a rushed decision. But looking backwards, I been making rush decision many times before. For example this on the Taiwan tour, I made the decision of the booking the air tickets in just 15 minutes of pondering (just because I hope to see 春敏 in Taiwan, but I didn’t meet up with her in the end) and I spend almost 1300 dollars for the trip. But as I look backwards, I think I earn some experience.

For this decision making, I need to think again. Maybe I should say yes, so I might have a different valentines day to spent 14 Feb 2014. Another word to add, 那些年的書，says ( if you risk nothing , you risk anything)

Finally, for my friends reading this blog today (11 dec 2013), you might want to give me a call to give me advise. But to myself, would anyone read my blog? Answers unknown, after all I get very few likes in my face book post as well. After all, my friends were too busy

I wrote too long, I should stop for now

GOD bless anytime , everytime , all the time

huitai

學做otah 的一天

在12月7号 2013年，我有机会到丽晶家向沧海学做otah, 所以自已1015 才到丽晶家。丽晶当天生病，没有办法参于，只有苑怡和春敏来学，加上自已就有三位学员。虽然这一次学习的人比想像中少，但能看到春敏，已经是件很开心的事了。和自已说，自已还是有一些「喜欢煮」的兴趣，只不过少了有人来欣赏与品赏，所以就不太敢煮，所以反而让别人以为自已不喜欢煮。今天就算春敏没来，或许我还会参于(但开心程度一定会少很多)，话说回来，春敏来了，在我人生画上不能忘怀的一天。
开始老师(就是司徒叔叔)教大家如何切奄鸭，当中就看出自已是很少进厨房的，切得鸡手鸭脚的。之后也教我们如何炒料，最后再蒸20分钟。之后，由苑怡开始炒，之后到春敏，最后到我。虽然我们炒的方式，放的成份都大同小异，但出来的味道就差得很远，不是不够味，就是不够辣，还是司徒先生煮得比较可以。这讲明了，烹任的功夫不是一朝一夕可以学到的，是要不断的努力。

在煮的过程中，能和春敏一起煮是件开心的事，她煮的时候，我就帮她放料理。在我煮的时候，她也帮了我不少的忙。整个学习到1330分，午餐就是吃OTAH 加面包渡过。 经过这一次的学习，自已学到了不少。司徒先生说下次有机会可以学别的，不过看样子，下次最少也会等到三月过后吧(大家都忙)，只希望四月会有机会，能遇到春敏的生日。