oct blog 2

On Oct 26, I went for a birthday lunch (buffet) at Lotus hotel at quality hotel (to celebrate Yenyi’s birthday). Only on that day, I realized that Yenyi’s birthday falls on Oct (27 to be exact) instead of November. They bought a gift for her, but as the costing has been done, I can’t do cost sharing as well. Guess what, I would wait until next year.




On the day, I supposed to reach the venue at 12oclock, but I left my house late, managed to reach novena MRT only at 1225pm. As I wasn’t able to find a way to walk there, nor can I find a bus service (124), I have to settle for a taxi (which cost 4.40cents). I guess it’s a penalty for being late; I should learn well and try to be early next time.



I reached the restaurant at 1235 pm; I was allocated to sit with on the table (with Siying / Sixian and her family) and few other girls. I didn’t manage to hit well with the girls, so I spent most of my time eating on my own food. Fortunately, Siying’s father do talk to me in the beginning (until he went away to drive his taxi). I guess I should look at things positively and give thanks whenever there is one

Later, we went to bugis to do shopping. As I had nothing to buy at hand, tianwei and I just took a 15 mins shopping and bought a t shirt for zhixian. I went home at 1605 pm.



Overall, I had fairly enjoyable day, thanks to the organizer (yenyi) and all my friends.

In the month of Oct, I had several friends having there birthday, so I should wish all of them happy birthday. Happy birthday to Yenyi and happy belated birthday to Wan Xia and Wan juan

Today is Jiamin’s birthday, I won’t be able to see her, just hope her all the best and have a great birthday.

This weekend, I would be going back to Malacca to attend a relative’s wedding. My 表舅 weds for the second time. I wonder when I would see “my first time”. I guess I don’t have the answer and can only wait.



Telling myself, I should worry less as I believe “會來的始終會來，不會來的，擔心也沒用” 。
I believe GOD is looking after my welfare; I should just wait and wait (and a very long while)

GOD Bless

Huitai

chinese orchestra concert by SP

On 25th oct, I went with Deming to see chinese Orchestral concert organised by singapore polytechnic. This is the first time I watched such concert “live”, the feeling I guess, is much better than anything I heard from CD’s. I saw Ruixiang performing in the group, and had been doing very well. To my surprise, Sheryl was also in the group（playing Pi pa）( I guess everyone knows except myself)..

I was seated with Lijing / Yenyi on the back row, and after the interval, I sat with zhixian / Tianwei and sky, as Ruixian and Huiru came over to sit with us.

The performance is excellent (but I must admit that I do doze off a minute or so during the last piece of the music [on the low part] ) the performance ended at 1020pm. I managed to take a photo with Ruixiang, but sadly to say, I didn’t manage to do so with Sheryl. Guess what, I think I have to wait till next year. Just hope, I would have more chance to come such concerts or plays, GOD bless

Huitai

OCT Blog(001)

two days ago , Facebook implement account verification on my main account ( which code had sent to my old mobile number which is no longer in use for 2 years). Suddenly, i wasn;t able to log in to the account.Connie was supposed to help to log in the account ( to play cafe world ), but simply cant go in.
my cafe world food, i think most probably spoilt after one day..

guess what, other than being upset, i can't do anything else. Look positively, i need to 放下 at times, and at times , i need to 看開。after two days, i managed to scan my ID to email to FB personal. now all i can do is to wait. I tell myself, at times like this, i can see less Facebook  and i think is a good thing

work wise , i started work in a BiG office ( at IBP ), where i can see almost everyone by just standing up. My manager doesn;t have room either. the most important thing is , i am able to find a vegetarian stall in the opposite building  (creative building ) , GOD bless

with a positive heart, i say [ 好也好；不好也好 ]

GOD bless

my 35th birthday

I passed my birthday in a very busy mode doing some important things (other than my birthday). There are people didn’t know or didn’t bother. I guess birthday to them is an unimportant event, they didn’t even think of them. Or maybe, I should follow suit and when in one day, should I “forget my birthday date”, it would be a nice thing (I think) .


Otherwise, there are a few who ask (Siying/ Sisheng), and Xingyan(興彥) come to me to say happy birthday, I appreciate all this effort by them as little things can mean a lot. In the end of the day, I got 68 FB greetings and a few msg. I got unexpected greetings from ( Raine / Wynce ) , although, there are some important friends I had yet to hear from them (receive their greetings ), but I hope to be positive and presume they are busy and (or) had forgotten. I just want to look at the bright side and stay cheerful. I got a bag (from a dozen of people sharing cost) and I love it very much, thank you all of my friends.

Now coming to birthday wish, other than a very old wish, I had no other wishes. But then, I should strive to achieve better self for the years to come. I should strive to read more, exercise more, work harder and play lesser games.


A Chinese saying, 「永言配天，自求多福」。在自已的行為上，一直不段自我要求，以達到 [天」的要求，這就是為自已尋求多種的「福報」啊！」

林則徐有說「海纳百川，有容乃大；壁立千仞，无欲则刚 」，多要求自已，不要求別人。

GOD BLESS

生日會

在9月17日，這是我人生第三次慶祝生日。開心和不開心的感覺都有 (或許這就是人生吧)

第一次(1988年-12歲)。第二次(1997年-21歲)，第三次(2011年-35歲)。以這樣算來，第四次不就是。。。。(2030年 - 54年)?? 真的不得而知。

早上有去打羽球（七個人），之才到麗晶的家慶祝生日。(很感謝她和她父親(聖喜叔叔)讓自已把生日的地點放在他的家 (准備的作工是很多的) 。自已沒有幫到什麼忙，心中還是有些慚愧。食物方面，很意外的得到瑪華阿姨、薜太、謝太和滄海叔叔的幫忙，本來在兩天前，還擔心沒有食物，兩天後卻來了來多食物。看食物的樣子，准備的功夫也是不少吧。不但如此，竟然不用錢 ！這大概就是我最開心(和感恩)的一個地方吧。

人員方面，有10人出席，比自已算的15人少了一些，春敏（生病）:(  、姿惠、婉霞等人都沒來。安的時間剛好遇到秋萍出國，所以她也來不成。馬來西亞的朋友也沒來，或許是這一次生日中，在很多開心里的「一些不愉快」吧.

做人(我想) ，多想開心的事，人也會比較樂觀。多想感恩的東西，人也會比較积极一些，要為有來的人( 孟錦、子強、志賢大老遠從兀蘭 / 天偉從市區 / YENYI 從白沙來)感到開心，這也是用心的表現，加上德明和仁暉, 這已足夠讓自已過一個快樂的生日。


GOD bless
慧臺  

生日前的感想

距离17號還有3天，但都不能確定有多少人會出席。現在食物方面也是一個問題，我媽有作工，所以沒辦法忙我煮米粉。馬來西亞的朋友沒有回應，大概是不會來了。到時會吃什麼，要准備多少人份，還是一個未知數




人生所面對的問題實在多，想請的那個「女孩」大概不會來了。新加坡打不進世界杯，奇迹不曾出現，今年的願望沒能實現，大概只能等「來年」了



還好，有象「天偉」這樣的几位好朋友，幫自已籌備星期六的聚会。 做人要時常有「樂觀」的心熊，古人有云，「三人成眾」，有三個朋友，就不可以講少了。做人要學會，多自我要求，不要求別人。人多慾，就多煩腦。少慾，就少煩腦。願望少一些就是件好事，大概就是這個意思。



很久沒打maple 了，FFS 也「死」了，希望有一天，我也可以不看 [FACEBOOK] , 那會更好吧。近來多看「聖人」的書，心情也比較開心一點。只希望今年，自已多努力，所謂的「謀事在人，成事在天」 。只要時時存「感恩」的心，沒有日子是難過的。



慧台上

Blog for sept 11 (1)

some sad news.. FFS（friend for sale) will be closing down on 3 sept 11 due to insufficient players . Some games i have played for a long time. But maybe it might be a good news after all, as i have quited maple, after this saturday, i will also give up FFS, leaving only cafe world. i will strive not to play any more new games, as i will spent more time on some reading.

my birthday has been shifted to 17sept. there is so much mixed feeling trying to organise such activities. on the downside, many of my friends either not free and adopting a "wait and see" approach. are they sincerely trying to make the effort to come? or are they thinking of some excuse (for not coming)? should i be positive and hope that they will turn up ? or should i be realistic and cancel the activity?

on the upside, at least a few (2 or 3 friends) support me for this activities.Particular (tian wei ) who has helped me a lot. i guess i should also adopt the wait and see approach. if turn out prove to be low.. probably with a few of us , a movie outing should be good enough.

about last year wish (hopping for a GF this year), i had 表白 to a girl in msg. havent get any reply yet. Got chance? or no chance? i hope i wouldn;t have to worry myself so much.. after all, FATE decides.

the recent president election give me something for me to learn.
Dr Tony Tan is not the the candidate i choose, but results show's that majority (35%) of singaporeans have given him the mandate, thus i should respect the results and hope Dr Tan could be a Good president.

Mr Tan Kin Lian is what i vote for, but he loses badly. but at least he tried, and now he know's where he stands.

Mr Tan Jee Say has also tried. Although he had losed, but at least he give singaporean a non PAP choice and now he knows that 1 out of 4 singaporeans were behind him.

from the above 2 instance, i think i should learn to try as well ( as least i know where i stand). in the event should i fail, i must be able to 看開，放下。my wish for a GF probably have to wait until next year .

just a thought
永言配命，自求多福　。
GOD bless

huitai

新工作的感言

8月15日，我開始我人生中的第七份工作．那一天，我选择坐巴士去到新的公司。开始两个小时，坐在会议室看HR 给的文件。有问到可否驾车去，HR 的回应是说可以，但自已得出月票钱(90元)。太贵了吧，还是搭巴士比较划算。

工作了五天，感觉还不错。工作看起来差不多(图纸比较容易，但份量比较多)。能工作，而领到一份薪水，我猜想，已经不错了。最好的是，附近有卖素的，不用吃早上打包的「冷」食物 :)

同事方面，HR 没有介绍那里的同事给自已认识，所以，公司虽然很多人，但不知道名字的也很多。
美女是有几个，但不知名字，更没有打过招呼。大概是不同部门，应该不会有工事的接触，那也就算了，没有要求是好事。

九月的生日PARTY 方面，得到的反应都不是很好，25是大家忙碌的一天。希望约到的那个女孩，还没有表态，是否会来。看来机会不高。告诉自已，如果PARTY 不幸被取消，不要难过。就当做省钱，在家静静地看书，也是好事。

慧台上

雲頂一日游

2011年8月9日，我第一次有機會去到了云頂去游玩。我外公、二姨，五姨，表弟(漢忠)一起去。早上从馬六甲坐上了往云顶的游行巴士。一开始，导游(小刘)就一直介绍赌场的好处。说，只要换取200马币的 「贏码」(筹码的别名) ，在赌桌上下两百马币的赌注，就可得到一餐免费和两分。分数多了，还有幸运抽奖。有了这么多的诱惑，难怪这么多人被骗去那里「送」钱。

坐了个3小时的车程，终于到了云顶。那里的风吹来，虽然有冷的感觉，但没有想像中冷。大部份的人都进了赌场，我们几个人便到处走一下。感觉到处都可以看到赌场，有30巴仙都是和赌有關聯。





我們之后坐车到山腰的「逢莱山庄」。那里有素可以吃，只是贵了一些 (143元马币)






在山庄，我们呆了3个小时，也拍了很多珍贵的照片。







难得遇到「八仙」也不忘和他们合拍一张 (何仙姑)






也和佛祖拍一张吧




有买了一件衣服(准备要送给人) 但一时忘了和售货员要求「L SIZE」的衣服，结果拿到了「XS SIZE」不懂还可送给人吗？

下午有到「云顶第一城户内游乐圆」玩一下，有坐「船」一下，也是不错的体验。




到了六点才下山。




这一次的行程相当的不错，由于时间不足，没机会去户外游乐圆，希望下一次有机会去

是想要，還是需要？

今天和朋友(waimun) 在 jurong point window shopping 引發自已想要買好一些東西。本來想要新的手機，但舊的手機意外被德明"修好"了，變成了自已沒有理由想要買新的手機。

也有想到要買ipad, 因為很輕，可以隨身帶著。但價錢也是很高，還無法決定是否應該買。除此，自也想買一個新的銀光屏和其他東西。可是回想一下，這些東西只是自已想要，還是真正的需要呢？花錢有時也要傷腦筋。

寫出去的msg沒有回應的時候，除了等以外，自已還可以做什麼呢？戀愛是一種想要和是需要？
告訴自已，想想、少看，或許會少需要吧。自已努力就好。:)


前兩天買了一個電視機給父視，雖然不少錢，但也希望他會開心。和自已說，這儿個月還是省錢的時候，盡量少買東西。




過了兩天的「無業日」可以安排做自已的東西或運動。今天自已終于去游泳了。雖然只游了300米，但和自說，已是不錯的成績了。下次再努力

很久沒有打maple 了，可能以後也不打了吧

Last Day At IR

the final moment has reached for me ( to finish the final lap in IR. i reached office at around the same timing. i have finished all the drawing on the day before, so i spent time doing my own things. i made two walks around the factory( in the morning and afternoon

i did went to sales , and got a pic with Doris ong.







I went over to DLC,but majority weren;t familar to me , so i didn;t take photo

later, i went over to GM office and took photo with jacky and Raymond





finally back to my office to take photo with Uthai ( wendy and Florence do not want to take phot with me , but it;s ok )




only sad thing, is i didn;t see steven. at 1730, i say bye to my desk and Go home




God bless :)

IR 的最後第二天

從2009年5月18日到現在，在IR呆了兩年又三個月。手上的工作已漸漸的完成了。要開始收拾好東西，明天就是最後一天了。心情還是有一些捨不得。有好一些同事和自已吃過飯了。有什麼不愉快的事情，就該放下來。不要記在心上，外面如果遇見了，還是可以打招呼吧。

新的工作會是如何呢？希望同事之間相處會不錯，(希望有美女的辦工室？)

接下來几天，可以的話，多運動一下，跑步和游泳都可以。

GOD BLESS

一些感言

今天有些空，就去看一朋友的部落客。有一些已經被關掉了。一些則一段時間沒有update了
也以看到很不錯的部落客。
看到大部份的朋友有cbox 的，留言都是spam mail，和自已一樣
現在自已的cbox 都出現馬來語的留言，真的是看不懂。
不知是否要拿掉這個cbox. 如果拿掉，不是沒得留言？


想想，好象很久沒有人來看自已的blog 了，真希望有人會來看，並切留言吧
謝謝大家

打保玲球的日子

已經很久沒有機會打保玲球的自已，因為麗晶的安排。又有機會進行這個活動。

當天16/07/11 ，麗晶、姿憓和自已先到到金文泰(stadium)。因為毅輝和他的朋友遲到。所以我們就先打一場。之後，大家先後才到。才多租兩個(LANE) 。當天，有十二個人來打，也是很開心的事吧。

選球方面，我先選了一粒12號的球。顯然不是一個很好的選擇。才玩几下，手便很酸了。只好換個比較輕的球(8 號) 。這是人生我第三次打保玲球，技數實在很差，有一半在「洗垄沟」。我打了三場，最好的成績有62分，還是比第一次打的(39分) 來的好。 有進步也是好事。







大家打了3個小時，才回。因為打太長時間了，所以沒有時間喝茶。趕著送毅輝去補習，接著送大家回家。到晚上，就開始手酸，和腰酸。告訴自已，以後要多運動吧

July blog (01)

a little higher pay for a 5.5 work week Vs a little lower pay for a 5 day work week?
which one should i choose. I guess i have chosen the later one, so i can spent the saturday on my personal things ( and visit my dad also) . i will change job on 15 aug 2011

last week , i went to sentosa ( with my Grandpa / aunt and Biao Di ). althought i spent nearly 200 dollars for the trip, but i was pretty happy with it.

GoD bless
cheers
toii

First interview 2011

Today i went to Aztech at Tuas to interview for A.E. the Post as i expected, is still drafting based ( similiar to draftsmen ). It's look ok ( except is a 5.5 work week). there were a HR and engineering Manager interviewing me. HR personnel do ask me a few question, but the manager was relatively quiet. Later, i was led to a PC to try out a simple Dwg.

Now still waiting for results. But i'm still not very convinced if i would take up the post ( if chance come).. need to see again

For my birthday, maybe i should do up a simple Birthday Lunch?? a few sincere friends is all i need ..
God blesss

六月的夏天

最近忙著tianwei 和yongjie 的生日outing 找人參于。等了好一會儿，回應的人卻很少。是沒有「空」還是沒有「心」呢？大概心里有數吧。有「心」但沒「空」的朋友，下一次還會請他們出來。但沒「心」的朋友，以後就不用再請他們吧。這樣想，失望會少一些。

本來跟自已很好的朋友，近來對自已很不好。原因呢？大概是緣已盡了吧。如果要走的，就得看開。

最近在maple BB 之後，好像已經失去打maple 的動力。不知要不要再玩下去?

最近又來了很多想「戀愛」的感覺，不知几時才會來 :(
最近有好一些朋友結婚了，沒請到自已。只能在這里祝他們永遠幸福

我生日9月要到了。不知可以安排outing 嗎？到時才看
要努力找工作了，其他的時間到才想吧.

God bless

空軍展一游

今天終于有機會到空軍展。只是可惜，大部份的朋友都很忙，沒有來，只有天偉和sigmund (剛好三人)。俗語說，三人成眾。不可以講少了。
因為0930才在eunos mrt 見面，又很多人。排隊的來，到機場已是1100分了

走到1245便回了，有一半的飛機沒看到，下一年吧

回顧一下，安排節目就是這樣。 東西不用勉強。自然，自已開，大家都開心

走出去，就有路？

找新的工作比想像還要難 :(
新的工作是什麼工作呢？同事好不好? 地點遠不遠？工作開心不開心？薪水好不好？不得而知

只希望下份工作能在有"美女"的辦公室作工 ，或許會比較有"motivation 吧 (自已猜的)

想想一下，做人只要盡本份，就好。不想就不會有問題。

慧臺

time for a new ERa

Yesterday, my manager handed me a extension of my contract by 3 months to aug 16. the reason for a short extension ( which i believe) was due to the change of management ( the General manager had resigned and the new one would be coming from China).

this is the second time that my manager suggest i should start finding a new job. maybe he thinks that the new management might not want to extend my service, so i should take his advice and start looking for one

maple wise, i "died" again trying to do scarlion boss. i don't understand why i;m unable to pass the stage where others can do easily at my levels.. maybe i should find time to practise Boss Mob "killing" to improve my skills

GOD bless