新年过年的经过2026（除夕）

很快的，马年即将到来。在年除夕的时候，有回到公司做了半天工。今天回去工作的员工相当少，大部分的同事，都已经拿假了。自己有稍微画一下图纸，打扫一下桌子。中午便放工了。之后有去JURONG point 吃饭，并走走看什么装饰品可以买。看来看去，没有什么特别好看的马年装饰品可以买，勉强买了一个回去，可以贴在大门上。姐姐和姐夫在12点多，就过来拜年了。因为自己不在家，所以遇不到他们。

下午有休息一下，旁晚母亲有准备两人份的火锅。今年少了泉锦 （去年三月就归空了），团圆饭也比较冷清一些。母亲近来胃口不佳，准备的食物，分量少了许多。和自己说，只要简单化，吃一个意思就好。自己也没有把照片放上网。

晚上九点后，就开始忙佛堂的东西。母亲不舒服，在房间休息。自己忙着檫佛灯和赛炉的粉，加上扫地和抹地，弄到半夜十二点才开始献香。之后，开始一天的守坛。在新的一年，依然没有机会出国。在家里过年，乐观来说，也是一件好事。如果有可以拜年的朋友，就出去走走。如果没有的话，就躲在家里多看书，准备应该准备的资料。希望今年，有人来拜年就好。旅行方面，开始幻想去到大版/京都的旅行，放一下下雪的照片，骗骗自己，就当走过了。

写到这里，不会谈恋爱的， 一个人 也可以很开心。

GOD bless all the time , 慧台

A visit to the garden by the bay ( 5 feb)

On feb 5 , the day that I would have to go to police HQ to sign attendance. Previously, I would rush to the HQ in the morning to do sign attendance before rushing to work. In the end, I can only reach office by 940am. For today, I decided that I should just take a day leave so my superior would not have to ask me the reason for being late to work . since I have 38 days of leave to clear in the year 2026. I guess such arrangement would be a better choice for me.

In the morning, I went out the same time to sign attendance. A sad thing but as expected, the case had yet to be cleared. I should tell myself to be mentally prepared that the case might not end soon, probably might even drag till 2027 and beyond. It must be fate that I cannot go oversea for a very long time.

Afterwards, I went to jurong point to change to shorts , and I took mrt to the garden by the bay . I reached the venue at around 10am. the weather today was quite good , and a little bit warm. I walked in the park for around 30 minutes , and there was fewer people around as it was a weekday. I didn’t come out with any detail plan (有路就走，迷路就回头)。The Chinese new year decorations will still work in progress, so I can only come back next time.

By 12pm, I start walking toward bugis. During the walk , I managed to pass thru marina bay sands, the esplanade, war Memorial park and CHIJMES building. The previous national day platform has been under construction for a new building , its seems Singapore has been forever building something. I walked into the CHUMES building , but not much to be seen except some restaurants. I reached fortune center at around 1345 pm and went to siva vegetarian to eat some Indian vegetarian. Afterwards, I done some shopping at nearby, and managed to buy some new year souvenirs. I also managed to get myself an expensive handkerchief at Kinokuniya.

Lastly , I took a bus to Chinatown to see the new year decorations. Its started raining at around 3 pm , and I had to take shelter for 30 mins. Finally I bought some Taiwan product before going home

Looking backwards, I guess this is a fruitful trip. For the imaginary Japan trip , I should imagine myself going to the Sapporo snow festival from 4 feb to 11 feb 2026. I should just see some youtube and place some photos, and presumed thatI have gone there . afterall , the year 2026 can only be an imaginary year, and I can only dream.

Looking forward, I guess I should be busy prepare material for the class (博学)， when I work hard for the right things , I would have less times to think for other things. Valentines day is coming, I will be alone, so I would do more to love myself, think positively and days would be better in the coming future (为自己画大饼)

写到这里，不会谈恋爱的，一个人必须很开心

GOD bless all the time , 慧台

参与“远方”亲戚的婚礼

在2026年的年头，参与亲戚(表哥的女儿嫁给马来人)的婚礼。对自己来说，已经很多年没有接到红炸弹。同时，这是第一次接触到跨种族的婚礼，也是蛮期待的。至所以说到“远亲”，因为我和这位表哥，已经有好几年没有什么见到面。最后一次 （也是唯一的一次）就是在2017 年去小姑的家拜年的时候，见到他们。当时他的女儿好像还在中学（16岁），我们也拍一张合照。在18年的时候，当我父亲在医院时，大姑和表哥也有过来看看我的父亲。等我父亲去世之后，就没有见过面了。

婚礼刚好在一月30号（星期五）。自己拿了半天假，有回家休息一下。到了425分才出门搭地铁到了paya lebar MRT , 然后走路到 CITY PLAza。 到了外面的交通灯时，有看到小姑一家人（小姑/姑丈/ah FENG 表姐 /Ah Mi 表妹）最少有15年没有见面的AH FENG表姐 感觉胖了不少。到了四楼的餐厅 ，我们被安排到4号的桌子。虽然我们有准时到，但在场的人感觉相当少。有一大部分的人都没有准时到吧？感觉马来族的婚礼也会延后才进行吧。

这个时候的新娘和新郎都忙着在拍照，都没有机会讲到话。我们在位子上等到630分才开始吃自助餐。当中母亲有想办法和小姑聊天，但她几乎都没有和我们有任何的眼神交流，就是不想和我们讲话。和自己说，有些东西不能勉强的。只要我们努力结善缘，其他的不好太在意。 在自助餐方面，根本都没有任何素食的食物 （感觉表哥事先也没有和男方那里沟通，或许他也不是吃素的）。但幸运的是有位马来妇女 （可能是男方那里的家长）有过来帮忙，在外面叫了一些素食外卖进来（ GREEN DOT ）, 我们 才不至于饿肚子。

在这次马来族的婚宴，感觉和华人的婚宴有一些不同。马来的婚宴中，新人都是坐在前面的沙发上，大家轮流上台和新人拍合照。自己算算大概只有6-7桌的人上去拍照。之后，我们有坐下来聊天，因为素食有点太多，有分一些给AHCAT表弟吃。二伯和二伯母有来，有请我们过年去他的家拜年吧。也有和AH ZHU表弟和他的女儿（FION） 聊一些和拍了一张合照才回。2015分便回了。一场婚宴就这样圆满的结束。希望这对新人能够幸福美满。

写到这里，和自己说，遇到什么事情都要学会乐观。这次同样放一下日本行的照片（nagano ），骗骗自己，就当去过了.

GOD bless all the time , 慧台