Aug blog (stay happy always) (いつも幸せになる)

I was relatively busy these two weeks on my job, having to do overtime some of the time. However, having some overtime is good at times

For my father’s house, the renovation by yongqiang has almost ended. The total cost have yet to come. The house looked much cleaner than a year ago, although there is still a lot of work to do. I should strive to clean up as soon as possible, so I could start to find tenant to cover all the daily cost

For the japan trip , I managed to book all of the hotel in hokkiado , two days at Sapporo , one day at lake toya and one day at hakodate. I also managed to book two days at aomori . next hotel I would need to book would require me to do some split decision . If I book a hotel at Odate , I will rule out going to lake Towada . but if I do revive the night at Lake towada , I will miss out going to kakunodate . telling myself , both option will be magnificent , I should decide by mid October.

For the vietnam trip , after much thought , I might just stay at Hanoi throughout the 5 days and make a day trip to Halong bay ( if there were no typhoon related weather ). It would be a cost saving trip, so I would not spent much.

For other matter, I thought I would have been busy on important things from September onwards , but all the important task (or even the non-important ones) didn’t not fall on me for some reasons or another ( probably someone believes I do not have the capability to do it ). Telling myself, it would be of no use to be upset about it, I should find other things to be busy of (and be happy about it)

For my birthday, I would busy on 25 sept. However, I should be free on the day before, I ruled out by any chance any of my friends would ever remember this date, not to mention if there is any celebration. I should stay quiet most of the time, and celebrate alone 寫到這里，不會談戀愛的，一個人也要很開心

GOD bless all the time 慧台

八月的感想

關于日本行，想了很久之後，終于下定決心，在7月25日買了從北海道到新加坡的班機 (419元)，在八月二日買了去東京的機票 (335元)。日期從29號晚上，到10號才回來，共12天。中間會如何走，真的有非常多的變數。

其中最困難的是從SENDAI到KAKOKUNATE的行程。中途還會多一天出來，要選擇在TAZAWA LAKE呆一晚，還是要去到NYUTO ONSEN 住一晚，或則直接去到kAKOkUDATE住一晚，結果都會很不一樣。交通永遠是件擔心的事。

同樣的，我還要在LAKE TAZAWA 和LAKE TOYA之間選一個，又要在NYUTO ONSEN 和NOBORI ONSEN之間再選一個。這四個景點的旅店相信都是最少120新元以上。雖然很貴，但風景還有不能錯過的地方。只能在當中選兩個。先靜下心，多一個禮拜才來想吧。同時一方面，ONSEN 的旅店准備的晚餐 ( 好像是非吃不可的) 不懂有沒有純素，听那里的人說，就算素食，也可以也是一點魚的料理(DASHI)。我有回應說，堅持不能吃任何有肉的食物，現在只有等他們回應，如果真沒辦法，或許就在兩個LAKE 渡過兩天，可能NYUTO ONSEN 還可以來了DAY TRIP

第三個困難，我在想應不應該在hiROSAKI 住一晚，還是直接去AOMORI (住兩晚)。如果直接去AOMORI 的話，對我去MT HAKKODA 就沒有這麼趕。但沒有在HIROSAKI住一晚，會不會有些遺憾？和自已說，人生總會有得失，選擇這個就失去那個。

最後，因為SAPPORO 有SNOW FESTIVAL ，擔心遲一點，就BOOK 不到好價錢的HOTEL 了，在8月五號，就先BOOK 了兩天(175 新元) ，OTARU 就變成了DAY TRIP 了。 講到老爸的屋子，全部的房客都搬走了。接下來有大裝修，永鏘做事也很快一下，兩天就把大半的東西弄好，漆也油好了，老爸家里最後的報紙也拿去賣了 ，共50公斤( 10元左右)。多兩天，自已還要過去老爸家里再忙一下，之後，就等新的房客進來。希望能遇到好的房客吧！

昨天(8月7日)是惠敏的生日，沒有她的聯係方式，在這里祝她生日快樂吧！國慶節也來，也祝新加坡54歲生日快樂 和自已說。我是不會談戀愛的，一個人也要學得開心

GOD BLESS ALL THE TIME 慧台

An interesting day at an elderly nursing home and at the Jewel

On 13 July, I managed to meet up with Alan to visit her mother at a nursing home in bedok area. I went to Alan house to pick him up (and also his wife and one-year-old son.

I drive them to the nursing home at around 0945am. First, Alan exchange pass at the reception and we went up to the third floor. A group of elderly was watching TV at that time. We find a nearby table to sit while a nurse pushes Alan‘s mother (on a wheelchair) to us. His mother was suffering from dementia, and could not recognise most of the people (including me). We stayed in the home for almost 3 hours; first, Alan tried to get her to walk around the home (around 50 meters I guess,).

Later, we push her mother to a Dog show. There were around 20 elderly watching the show. The show starts around 1045, where the host started by singing two songs. Later, there were some individual performance by 4-5 dogs. Although the dogs were not exactly professionally trained, but it proves to be sufficient as it has brings some joy to the elderly. I did not do much except to sit beside and took some photos.

At 1215pm, we left for lunch; Alan treated me at the bedok mall. After that, we went to the JEWEL. We reached the place at 1345pm. the place were relatively big, and we only managed to visit the waterfall at level 1, and some shopping area. There were many people and most of the area for food is being crowded with people. We initially wants to go to A&W to order some drink, but the queue is simply too long. In the end of the day, we just rested at the food court nearby

At 1615, we left jewel, and I sent Alan and his family back home before going home. Looking backwards, I think it is a meaningful trip. It is always good to try to take care of these elderly as we one day will become like them too , when our parents ( or elderly ) are happy , there are always some satisfaction in our heart . Furthermore, I t also teaches us the importance of having a good health.

Looking forward, Alan and his wife mentioned about japan trip, although they do express interest in going to japan together, they do not want to go during wintertime, neither do day want to visit any onsen. So talking to myself, I should visit japan next Jan alone. Any chance of going to japan with Alan would only be realized at Oct 2020 earliest / or Apr 2021?

Game wise, I had spent a little too much for thought, the progress is slow despite spending those money. Telling myself, I should adjust my expectation and not try to compete with those “expert”, I should not be spending more than 50 dollars a month, so I could save some money for the japan trip next year. I should stop for now, 不會談戀愛的，一個人也要很開心

GOD bless all the time 慧台

七月的感想

在一個特別 安靜的時光，渡過了一個平靜的半年。總覺得，自已退步的時間多于進步的時候。悲傷的時候多 而快樂的時候少。有時，常在人多的地方感到孤單，有時覺得自已好像不屬于這個世界，不合群的另類。我可以做什麼呢?

近來有個和自已打呼的女孩，沒有抓緊機會和她拿電話。錯過的機會，大概不會再回來了。難過又能如何，只能樂觀說，如果當時真的表白，必然會讓她討厭，又結下 不好的緣。想想，單身還是好的。

在日本行方面，這個月來了相當多的變數，有電郵給GINZAN ONSEN, 他們的回應是那里的旅店都不收單行的旅客，心里有許多的難過。單行的旅客就有問題嗎？如果能找到知音人的話，我也希望可以多几個人陪我去，但這樣的機遇是可遇可不求的。振作一下，不要因為這樣的難過影響到自已。和自已說，大概就在SENDAI住兩晚，可能可以把GINZAN ONSEN當作一日游來走走吧！ 在另外一個所謂「必去」的LAKE TOWADA , 那里的交通超級不方便。冬天沒有任何巴士服務，旅店又特別貴，最便宜好像也要120新元 ( 大概要加上載送的車費吧 ) 。從唯一的交通地 ( hachinode ) 到旅店也要兩個多小時，簡直就是超級吃時間。未在除非有超級奇跡，不然我也只要跳過這個景點，而改去hirosaki 住一晚。

這個月有和兩個朋友(仁暉和天偉)一起吃飯慶祝，想想也是好事。上個禮拜，和同事一起去看電影 ( SPIDERMAN )，也不錯吧。九月份的生日，會有人想陪我吃飯嗎？有朋友當然是好事，但一個人也是可以的。反正不會拿假就是了。

學日語方面，我會盡量每天寫几行字，多學多寫就會有些進步。努力自已是必要的，戀愛只要慢慢等，等很久才會有。努力自已就好，不會談戀愛的，一個人也要很開心

GOD bless all the time 慧台

六月的心情 (ちょおと寂しいとつまらない)

近來，心情有些復雜。有時的忙碌讓自已很累，有空閒的時候就覺得寂莫。之後又得找東西忙碌，最後還是累。果然就是人「累」我想。近來一直在想著明年的日本的旅行。一路的向北行有很多不確定的事情，有沒有交通，會不會到達，往往是個非常困難的事。每次幻想在路上能遇到的漂亮女孩，心里總會有停不下來的喜悅。但這樣的幻想是對的嗎？應該不是吧！所以，近來和自已說，對「美女」這個東西，必須在心中去掉。和自已說．不想也不看，煩腦自然少。六祖說過的，「正來煩腦除，邪來煩腦至」。把「美女」的照片從自已的電話删掉了，只希望不要去想得不到的緣份。

老爸的屋子方面，轉名字方面已經轉好了。第一阶段的裝修也告一段落了，換了整間屋子的電，馬桶和門。接下來，等房客搬走之後，就可以進第二阶段的工作，那就是油漆。前兩天有去到姐姐那里，講起老爸去世的事，她沒有太大的反應，只不過一下就忘了。想想要等到她比較清醒時，才能去律士樓了。

游戲方面，近來都花了不少錢。但和那些大神比起來，還差得非常遠。和自已說，用來打發時間是可以的，但不要太過在意于所謂的進度，游戲輸人是可以的，有時拿不到獎，進不了榜，也就算了。反正總會有一天會棄遊的吧，我想

寫到這里，要時常和自已說，不會談戀愛的，一個人也要很開心

GOD Bless all the time 慧台

may Blog

After months of waiting (待っている), the process of arquiring my father’s flat theorically is coming to an end . I made a visit to the HDB to do the transfer of owner ship. I wasn;t exactly given the ownership as the flat has my sister’s name as well. But rather I was only given the the right to administer the flat , and that only include the ability to sell(売る) , but I would not be able to rent or do major renovation .

for now , I should just renovate the house slightly , which cost slightly more than 8000 dollars .the main part goes to rewiring (1800), 4 fans (1300 ) ,2 toilet bowl (750 ) , painting (900) and some other minor parts . its relatively expensive , but it would be very worthy I think . Looking in the future , I need to see my sister to ask her if she wants to withdraw her name from the flat. My brother-in law is always busy and i could not see him for almost half a year.

For the japan trip next year, I managed to my plan to tripadvisor forum. As expected , there were only 2 people who had commented on the post , and its seems that these two are just foreigners that visited the place before . Still thanks to their advise, I should extend the trip from 9 days to 11 days and spent time at hakodate (2 days) and Sapporo (2 days). For Ginzan onsen, I would strive to see if I could book a ryokan on 28 Jan even if the cost might go as high as 15K yen per night. I would need to book latest by September ( probably even before I can secure an air ticket) . In the event if I could not book due to full house or otherwise, I might just choose to go Kakunodate for a night. Looking forward, I would still hope that someone (or a girlfriend) to accompany me to the japan trip. Although, such dream is almost impossible, it is still nice to imagine for a while.

For my Japanese learning wise, I need to learn on a faster pace so that I could speak simple Japanese by the time I goes to japan. Meanwhile for the next few months, I should just save a bit more, and keep quiet for some time.

For company trip wise, my company had decided that we should go to Hanoi for a 3 days trip, I would be taking up the second trip that is for 4-6 Oct this year. I should be extending for 2 days, for the exact plans, I should wait until September to decide

i should stop here for a moment , 不会谈恋爱的，一个人也要很开心

GOD bless all the time 慧台

紐西蘭之行(回顧)

很快的，一个十天的旅行告一段落了。对我来说，这是第二次和朋友组团出国旅行 (第一次是2013年和志贤等人)朋友团和一个人的旅行是有很多不同的地方，学习到的东西也很不一样。不论是要准备的东西，或遇到的事情都不一样。

在准备方面，团体生活要带的东西就多了。因为大半都是自已煮，所要带的烹饪器具就已殌塞满一个旅行箱了。加上要带的食物、酱油等调味料还真得不少。到了纽西兰要买的米和菜都要想到六个人的份。每个人的口味实在说，也很不一样，顺庭重口味，越咸越辣越好，自已比较喜欢吃澹的。如果要顺大家的意思，就煮不到东西来吃了。虽然有很多困难的地方，但团体生活中吃的东西也比较一个人旅行还要好，最少不是餐餐泡面和快熟粥 在旅行的目地，团体旅行要考虑的东西会更多。不像一个人的旅行，想要做什麽就做什麽。每个人的想法不一样，有些人(像自已)喜欢早早起床，争取时间多看风景，但也有人只想轻轻松松，早上睡到自然醒。所以说团体的旅行学习到包容和体谅，包容他人的不足，体谅别人的过失，配合别人的习惯，不要把自已的想法强加在别人身上。有时在开玩笑的时候，就要注意自已的言语，以免伤害到他人。对于别人的玩笑，就要笑笑就算了，也不要放在心上。能在一起旅行，也是一种缘份。

团体的旅行也学习到互助的精神。在这里要感谢南明，几乎每个早上，都会早起来准备早餐和午餐。让我们有饭或面可以吃。自已也要帮忙一下。因为人多好办事，有人切菜、有人煮饭，有人炒菜，最后也有人洗碗。一起做的东西，大家做的开心，又很快就做完了。团体的旅行包含了团体的责任和团体的快乐 (有人可以聊天和拍照)

团体的旅行要学会的东西是应该输的时候，要学会输。在言语上，很多时候，都不要有赢别人的念头。这一次和顺庭的磨擦不少。讲到共产党的东西，因为意见的不合，为了一个不关我们的事的东西而吵架，回想起来，自已还是够笨的。所以在今后的人生，学会讲输别人，是很重要的，我想。

这次的旅行，算算大概的花费，就有2850元，单单在女皇镇就花了七百多元。对这样的花费还是可以的吧！和自已说，该花的地方就不好省。学会开心一些。

关于明年去日本的旅行。南明已经表明不会参于，顺庭怕冷，也不会一起去吧。大概又是一个人的旅行吧！到下个月，先把行程放进tripadvisor的纲站，看有没有人能给更好的意见。之后要再看飞机票。什麽决定，都会到九月才说。

写到这里，和自已说，不会谈恋爱的，一个人也要很开心

GOD bless all the time 慧台

紐西蘭之行(第十天)

早上0600分起床。南明起来准备最后的早餐。自已有冲凉之后，便去外面走走。天空上还是很多云，还是拍不到东西。早上0720分左右，和南明走去附近的河边。风景非常好，只可惜没有时间可以走了。走了10分钟，便回到旅店，收拾好行李。大家准备好之后，我们又驾车回到同样的景点，拍了15分的照片，便要赶去机场。

一路上有停了两个地方，加油和休息一下。到机场已经是1145分了。在机场寄完行李后，便在咖啡厅喝了咖啡和吃蛋糕当午餐。之后，和奇德夫妇说再见(他们坐明天早上的飞机)。进入等候厅的时候，有买了一些chocolate。有看到softtoy, 没有买，心里有点遗憾吧。

等到1315分才上飞机，自已本来是坐窗口旁边的，结果让顺庭给坐去了，不想和他吵，也就算了。到了墨尔本 的机场已经1550分了，之后赶去转机。在转机厅里，没有买到春敏要的cheese ring，心里有些难过。在那里也没有免费的网络，打不了游戏，也就算了。

到1630分又上了飞机，前往新加坡。坐了七个半小时的飞机，在晚上1000到了新加坡。就这样，一个十天的旅行来到了尾声。接下来就要努力工作，等待下一个旅行。希望在下个旅行当中，也有人倍我去吧！

写到这里，和自已说，不会谈恋爱的，一个人也要很开心

GOD bless all the time 慧台