今天，難得在家休息，想想今天得與失吧。今年是一個不太愉快的一年。很多時候，都是一個人在家，自已做自已的事吧。樂觀來看，在家或許是省錢的方法。自已的習性，該改的還沒有改，來來又去去。想戀愛的感覺，還是去不掉，但和自已說，找東西忙，難過的感覺就會少一點吧。
車到現在，下半年就壞了四次(德明和聖喜有幫忙出一點)，但還好沒有駕車去馬來西亞，如果死火在半路上，可就倒大霉了。什麼事都有上天美好的安排。
學日文，沒有什麼進展。但時常努力，希望不要把學會的忘了吧。看書也少，特別是下半年。運動近來也少。
最後，我只想說，過去不能再回來了，最重要是現在的我，應該做什麼，(要做正確的事)，少想一些不開心的事。工作近來忙，能賺加班錢的話，也是好事。但如果少過四個小時(漍不到加班錢)，就當做送給公司，只要公司生意，就好了。
明年不會有太大的變化，靜下來，學會自已愛自已。多運動，多看書、多省錢，一個人也會很開心的。
GOD ｂｌｅｓｓ ａｌｌ ｔｈｅ ｔｉｍｅ
慧臺
BUSAN
SEOUL
最後來說，近來很忙。;忙到應該做的東西都做不到。和自已說，常常保持著樂觀的心境。什麼事，船到橋頭自然直. 希望不久的將來，能去到下雪的地方，2018年去日本？
不會談戀愛的，一個人也要很開心
god bless all the time
We (jurong people ) meet at Jurong east mrt , in which we took Mrt and bus to East Coast park. We reached east coast park on 1015am to meet up with the rest of the people. Only when we arrived , the organizers decide that the laser tag would be too expensive ( 35 dollars for 45 minutes ), we end up doing cycling again
We proceed to rent some bicycle (two of them rented a scooter) for 3 hours(1130-1430 hours ). We cycled in a group towards marina barrage, but during the interval, we stop quite a few times, so that people behind can catch up, I guess we spent almost 30 percent of the time waiting. In the end , we didn’t make it to the barrage , and we just stop at at area near there to take a group photo. Finally at around 1250pm , we turn back
During the return trip , mingxian fall down and got injured (that’s a sad thing). We return the bike at 2oclock, and we dispersed for lunch. Half of us went to paya lebar to eat , and I went home by myself after that.
Looking backwards, its is a pretty good cycling trip , and probably good for exercise. But concerning team bonding wise , we didn’t talk as much as the outing in 2015 (probably nobody is free enough to prepare food for us to eat together ( and talk together?) and probably lack of team bonding games as well.
In conclusion , this is probably the only outing (for ME ) for the year 2016. I should tell myself , try to be happy all the time, if I cant find reason to be happy , I should keep quiet and stay away .
一個人也會很開心
GOD BLESS all the time
慧台
busan
seoul
最后，今年已经很久没有运动了。现在的脚比较好了，是时候，去跑步或游泳了。告诉自已，什麽时候，都要努力自已，没有朋友陪，就自已陪自已吧。父母开心最重要，其他方面，能省则省。世上没有过不去的路，忍忍就过了。一個人也可以很開心
God bless all the time
慧台
I went to the ballroom with his friends (Seth). The ballroom is relevant big, but there is only 6 tables presume there will be an owner table, one table for relatives of the bridegroom, 3 tables for the relatives of the bride, and the last table for “friend”.
Since Alan did not prepare vegetarian and Muslim food for the lunch (additional cost), so I can’t eat at the lunch buffet. Alan decide to treat me to early lunch outside (near his house ) at around 11am , I fetch the bridegroom , his sis and his mom to the wedding venue
The wedding started around 1230pm, I was supposed to be tasked to take care of Alan’s mother , but in the last minute , Alan’s elder sister decide to do the job instead . Since I had nothing to do, I started going around taking photos. Almost all of the people attending were relatives (20odd for the bride side) and around 10 from the groom side) to my surprise, only three friends were invited (and one of them is me). I didn’t see any beautiful ladies (only two teenage girls) and the rest elderly (sad).
The lunch started around 1245 hours. It started with solemnization ceremony, followed by the tea ceremony. Fortunately, there weren’t any hiccup as feared by Alan in the morning. After that, there is the buffet for an hour or so.
The event ends around 1430 hours. Both Alan and his bride looks for places to take photo, but then the hotel had very few places to be able to take nice photos, finally the session ends at 1545 hours.
Looking backwards, it’s a good experience trying to help out in such joyful event. From the couples feedback that they are too busy that they are unable to eat anything on the table. Things would be better if there are a few more “brothers and sisters”. After this round, I think there won’t be any marriage to attend this year or next. Tianwei’s marriage would probably come in the year 2018. My marriage? No hope ..
Wedding aside, my car experiencing some problem for the third times in recent months, hope the car do spoilt less often. But then I won’t be driving to Malaysia in the year end thing (taking bus would be a better option)
I should stop here for now
一個人也可以很開心，GOD bless all the time
慧台
这时才发现相机的ｌｅｎｓ进水气了，完全拍不了。有一时的难过，但也忍下来了。先用手机拍吧，如果什麽事，拿回新加坡再修理也不迟。就开心的一个人走吧。之后也有进去城隍庙看看，有看到素食，就非常开心，吃面，吃得很饱。也买了一些糕点，省下的小钱就捐去庙里吧。
走到１４２０分才回到饭店，走散的同事也回来了。讲了他们的经历。和自已说，和不同的人走，就有不同的经历，自已走也是可以的吧。
就这样，五天的旅行就这样的过了。自已有什麽样的感觉呢？这五天，四天都在下雨，第二次的旅行遇到了台风雨。但今年的天气也有点反常，一直下雨，但气温还是在18-20度左右吧。
这次的自由行，能学习的东西还是很多的。很多东西都最后一次都会出现变数。以为有素食的地方，店就一直找不到。以为没有素食的地方，却意外的看到斋餐馆。就以一颗不变的心来应万变吧。同时，按排行程尽量不要按得太紧，多花一些时间在一个景点，总比去很多景点(但看的东西有限)来的强。能多感受当地的文化背景也是一种学习。这次的旅行的花费也比预期少(五天只花了260新元), 学习用不贵的方式来旅行。
这是我第二次来到中国。感觉还好吧，中国现在到处都在提倡文明，但文明的事却不多见吧。搭了几次地铁，没有看到地铁外的人礼让，让里面的人先出来。大家都是挤进去(个人感觉)。希望不久的将来，中国人民在文明这方面，会越来越好吧。
讲到中国的纲络，中国虽然有很多地方都有免费上纲，上都需要中国的电话号码。外国人根本都上不了纲(想问同事联係都很难)，加上我们外国人常用了的面子书(facebook)，instagram 或google map 都被block 了。因为在酒店里有了wifi，也不知什麽纲站可以上。自已对微博也不熟，也很少朋友在微信吧。还有一点，在很多旅游景点，看到的大部份旅客也是大陆人(大陆团)，外国的旅客团相比就少了一些。什麽原因呢？只能慢慢猜了。
以城市来说，苏洲感觉生活方式还好。但上海的节奏也太快了，人也太多，地铁太挤，房子也太贵了。下次应该不会再来上海了吧。如果以后真得再来中国，希望去到节奏比较慢的城市(如成都)，或比较冷的城市(北京)，但要等到2019之后吧。只希望素食到时会更加方便吧。今年能出國兩次，已經很幸福了，明年才想去韓國的事吧。
写到这里，一个人也会很开心，GOD bless all the time
慧台
