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Jun 16, 2015

新加坡一日游

我二姨在六月九日(在没有通知之下)来到新加坡看我们。除了星期一晚上,和她出去吃饭。其他几天都没有空。而且她星期五就要回去了。想想,不如就拿一天假,和我二姨一去出去走走。我母亲也同意在12日,一起拿假。

当天早上,我们吃了早餐,便载车(花了20月的晟 day licence)前往博物馆 (主要是看李光耀记念馆,如果不去看的话,超过6月28日就结束了。) 到博物馆已是十点十五分,总以为会很大的地方,结果走了10分钟就走完了。其他的地方也实在没有什麽展览可以看的。只有新加坡700年的展览比较有东西看。进去走了30分钟,体会到新加坡的成就得来不易。都是先辈们努力的结果。让我更学会感恩。通过李光耀的展览,他教导了我们(新加坡人)学习自立根生,学会克苦耐劳的精神。这次的行程不算白来吧。本来还想去花柏山走一下,但外面开始下雨,不得已只好打消念头。这次的carpark 竟然要7.50 元(1010-1210),感觉贵了好一些。

之后,我们去到 garden by the bay。之前有和朋友去过,但并没有真正的走到。 这一次比较会用时间去走走。因此第一个感觉是那里能走的地方可真不小,感觉一天是走不完的。之前有下大雨,但我们走的时候,雨已经变小了,天气也很凉。

我们一路走到金沙城。一路的风景都不错吧。那些花钱的地方,我们都没有进去看。但我二姨有进赌场看一下(我和母亲在外面等)。那里的商店大多卖的都是名牌货,不是我们小市民买的起的,只能 window shopping 了。走到1530分才回到原来的地方(走到脚酸),才发现其实有接览服务(只需2元),下次有机会可以坐接览巴士吧。

之后,和我二姨去游车河一下,才去东南西北吃晚餐(第一次吃佛跳牆),之后才载我二姨去车站,结束一天的旅行。

回想一天的旅行,感觉还好吧。新加坡也有些地方没有走过,或许就该花时间(自已) 走走。只要学得到东西,就不用一直希望去到很远的地方(旅行)。我生日也这样的方式去旅行(去植物圆?)。現在的我,看完「北京」的旅行书,多兩天要改看「东京」的旅行书了。感覺旅行就足夠了

一个人也要很开心

慧臺

Jun 2, 2015

2015年6月感想

2015年的半年,很快的,就要结束了。应忙的时候,都在忙。工作最近也亡较忙一些。第一次有机会在星期六加班,做了一整天的工(扣掉一个礼拜的4小时),这个礼拜还有9.5个小时的加班费吧。

近来,通过fb,看到很多朋友出国的照片,我有朋友6月中又要去台湾了。我的表哥下个礼拜要去香港了,感觉现在的出国风还是很强的。对我来说,能出国旅行是好事,但金钱方面(会答应吗?)我想比较难吧,反正要找「志同道合」的朋友能出国旅行,感觉比「登天」还难。现在学会了看旅游的书本,想像旅行的开心。

近来想去北京的感觉(想看某个人吧)。就去借了北京的书,和自已说,只要看完,旅行也告一段落了。反正真正要去到那里,也不一定有钱,但想一下,既开心又免费,不是一件好事吗?

六月份的开始,要多为自已努力,一有时间就看书,多运动。平时多省钱,省多两年,说不定可以买单身房子。眼镜坏了(差不多),但希望能忍到八月份才换眼镜吧,关于电脑,可以去二手店买一个旧的,不问朋友了,大概他们也帮不上忙

最后,nicole 的生日又到了,祝她开心。

一个人也可以很开心

慧台

May 5, 2015

義升的婚禮 (前後)

五月二日2015年,很容兴有机会见证义升和他的女友,结束很长的爱情长跑,进入婚姻礼堂,成为夫妻。

刚好,我的护照到十月份就到期了(四月10号就不能出国了)。只能先做护照才进能进入马国。13号,我拍了照片,便把表格寄出去(到移民厅)。等了一个多礼拜,都没有回应(正常五个工作日就可以得到回應了)。

到了22号,终于忍不住,想打去移民厅问。但电话号码不灵,就当下上纲再申请一遍。冈上申请的一大困难,就是上传照片。它的格式,弄了一个多小时,才弄到移民要的格式。付费之后,又开始等消息。之后的等待变成一种煎熬,眼看五月二就要到了,但护照一直没有下文。五月一日又是公定假日,如果四月三十日还拿不到护照,去马国的计划就要泡汤了。还好船到桥头自然直,在29号的早上,得到回应 (email)。但因为最早的 appointment 是五月四日,也只好在30号 walk in 了

到了30号下午,去拿护照。1.45分就到了,拿到了F1530的号码。看来要等很久,便去对面走走。那里变得很多,从2001年(weixin的年代),到现在,变化也太大了,只有在那里走了半小时,去体会2001年的心情。等到1615分才拿到护照。 心里想,还好,我4月22上冈作,再迟两天作,就要等到5月后才拿护照了。

五月二日,我驾车载新城,天伟和国梁(蕙彤生病)去到 jb 因为地点不熟,由苑怡带路。一路走了有30分钟(感觉有点远),好像两次走错路,所以要 U-turn, 结果我的车先到 了Bangkok village.

之后,我们被带到了兄弟的桌子(听说是vip的位子),那里的布直比较特别,不是每个桌子都在大厅里,我们坐的地方就离主台有段距离,没能清楚看到新郎新娘交杯的仪式,(自已有走到比较好的位子来拍照),但有机会和陈老师坐在一起,也是好事。距离仪式哀始有一点时间,到处拍照,也和勇洁拍了合照(也是好事吧)。

之后大多数时间,都坐下吃,食物都很好,只不过风扇有点不足,大家都觉得比较热。吃到了1830分才散场,本来还想和新郎再合拍一张照片,但大家都好像好赶着回了,就算了。

又是一个好朋友结婚了,应该为这对新人感到开心。今年应该不会接到「红炸弹」了吧。这半年就多省一些,出国的计划,多几个月之后才来打算。

什麽事都要看得开,一个人也要很开心

慧台

Apr 7, 2015

四月 2015年

4月3日

我的车的轮胎又爆胎了,还好有好心人帮忙(忘了名字)帮忙进风,让我要机会载车去到pioneer North找轮胎店。但因为遇到公共假期, 没有店有做生意。等了15分钟,轮胎漏风也太快了,不敢去老爸那,便把车驾回去了。之后,有好打给成发,还好他有给自已一个号码,打给 修轮胎的人(ah seng)。半个小时后,他有过来看一下, 发现有一条铁条插进轮子里。因为铁条有十公分这麽长,轮胎补不了,只有换掉(140元+40元人工费),又是出血的时候了,反正下午就要去马六甲了,只要给他钱,请他明天再来换轮胎了。

4月4日

我回到马六甲参于一年一度的清明节。早上,0545分起床,吃了二姨煮的米粉之后才出门。时间本来讲好0630分到山上,但二姨认为大家应该不会准时,所以到0635分才出门。0650才到山上,这时大家都已经到了。学了一些东西,那就是准时要从自已开始,下次应该要准时吧。

这次参于的有外公、二姨,汉忠、大舅、大舅母,二舅和一家人(3人),三舅和一家人(4人),五姨和她男朋友(2),共16人。我们开始先整理太婆的墓,三位舅舅忙着要把墓旁边的树给砍断,说树的根会弄坏那坟墓。其实那树已经在那里好一段时间了,真的会有影响吗?讲了三位舅舅都不听,好不容易把一棵小树给砍下,大树砍不了,只好砍树皮,希望树会自已”死掉” ,自已反而希望树明年还活着吧。

之后,有打扫外婆的坟墓,也好吧,当中我的二舅有说,烧金纸就够了,不用学其他人,说要烧什麽纸车,纸房或是纸做的东西,因为这些东西是烧不完的,祖先也未必懂得如何用。自已在这一点是很赞同的,但觉得,如果可以,连钱都不用烧了,只有子孙在世多行善事,自然就已经帮到祖先了。最後去廟去祭拜我的小姨,整個祭,到十一點半就好了。之後到我二舅家用午飯。以上又是一年一度的掃墓活動吧

展望方面,今年應該是比較困難的年份。公司的d&d遇到佛堂的節目,不得已把d&d放在一邊,等明年再參于吧。旅行方面,二姨講可能10月會有清邁之行,只能遲些說再看會不會去吧。其他的費用,能省則省。現在開始,一有時間就要多看書,戀情不會有機會的,一個人也要很開心

God bless anytime , everytime, all the time

慧台

Mar 30, 2015

The legacy Mr lee kuan yew left behind

On The 25 Mar 2015, I made an effort to take a trip to J link, the nearest place I could go to offer my condolences for Mr. Lee (since I do not have the time to visit parliament house to pay my respect.

I reached the place around 1810hours. I queued up to get a small black ribbon ( the crowd was pretty small at that time ( probably all gone to parliament house??). it took me one minute to walk in and pay my respect to the elderly, and the other 10 minutes or so watching TV (about The Struggles Mr. Lee faced during the early days of Singapore ), the content was relatively similar to watch I saw on Channel 8 . lastly , I left a note thanking Mr. Lee for his contribution in one of the memorial books and left .

The word I have been thinking is the word “Legacy “, or to be precise, the Legacy Mr. Lee left behind. There were people believing that without LKY, Singapore world have perished or had remained as a fishing Village. Although LKY done a great deal for Singapore), but to say Singapore cannot survive without one particular man is simply weird. Fortunately (or otherwise), history don’t repeat itself, thus there’s no way we can know how far Singapore can progress if Mr. Lee wasn’t the PM, Will it get worse? Or will it gets better? Only GOD knows. Nevertheless, I still felt very fortunate to have Mr. Lee on the Helm as PM.

After a long week of mourning, Mr. Lee Kuan Yew finally left us. The deeds he has done, whether good or bad, had become history. The more important part is what Legacy did LKY left behind. There is a Chinese saying, 人死留名,豹死留皮, when a man dies, what kind of spirit or virtues does he leave behind??

1) Anti corruption campaign, I found this part as the best merit I see in Mr. Lee which is lacking in many country leaders. In many countries, a country that cannot go forward or probably even goes backward in the result of corruption. Mr. Lee is able to stand by his anti – corruption stance and even walk it (by refusing millions of dollars of bribes in the early 1960s). This is exactly why Singapore is able to prosper due to the right ethics being brought in way from the start.

2) Racial harmony, Mr. Lee was right to promote racial harmony (whether he exactly walk the talk is rather controversial), as we see in riots in other countries due to racial intolerance. Our HDB policy had integrated certain amount of Chinese, Malays and Indians, allowing us to understand each others beliefs. As a Chinese, I was rather grateful to LKY initiated policy that I come to know more about Malays and Indians

3) Cheap housing for the public. This is another plus point for MR Lee in his early years. People at that time can afford to buy a house and fully pay for the installments in less than 10 years. Although this is mainly the credit of Mr. Lee’s colleague (Mr. Lim Kim San), but it is also Mr. Lee credit for using the right people. Unfortunately nowadays, people need to do installments up to 50 years for buy a house probably the same or smaller than the house in the 70s.

4) Sacrificial for public spirit. During the early days, LKY was selfless, and had helped a lot of people (particular the labor Unions in the late 1950s and early 1960s). he and his cabinet ministers are doing a lot for the low salaries they are getting and people are giving them support ( by voting in Pap for many years). But things start to change, when Mr. Lee started to enrich himself with high pay raise over the years, resentment gradually increase as well. The reason behind the pay raise given by Mr. Lee is that High salary will entice more talent to join public service. I cannot say if this sentence is wrong, but when we look at the substance of the ministers nowadays (and the kind of mistakes they make); I seriously doubt Mr. Lee’s belief. While the salaries is in Millions, but PM Lee (junior) had found more difficulties getting talent. I seriously think high salaries erode public spirit.

Policy making wise, it’s hard to say whether it is a plus point for Mr. Lee (or a minus one). I sincerely believe Mr. Lee intention is good at the time when decision was made, but rather when side effects came in ( example of 2 children policy ), Mr. lee failed to acknowledge his part of the mistake . The privatisation issue, the GRC systems etc are some policy we found hard to consume.

I was also baffled when Mr. Lee mentions “what wrong with making more money “(on the COE issue). Is Singapore fast becoming a company rather then a nation? When Mr. Lee’s opinion that aljunied resident will need to repent for 5 years (when they voted Workers party) that several people that I know was pretty upset for. Isn’t election about voting a better party?

On the final thought, although Mr. Lee made some mistake here and there, but I believe his good legacy had indeed propel Singapore to the state we have now

Looking forward, I hope the government would strive to improve on the good legacy and amend those not so well. So that Singapore could move ahead together as a nation, and lives made more affordable for all Singaporeans

讲到自已,日子还是一样吧。多五天就是春敏生日(四月三日),大概不能送她礼物了,只能在心中祝福她,希望她婚姻美满,早生贵子吧

什麽都要看放得下,一个人也要很开心