A good start for the new year 2017

For the last day of 2016, I didn’t really go anyway except a visit to jurong point at the late hours . The place wasn’t as noisy as I thought of (probably because the venue wasn’t chosen as a count down venue). I didn’t go to the old boon Lay (for the countdown event) as I wouldn’t want to go there alone. Thus I spent the last one hour of the year watching YouTube at home (Yan and the Japanese people) (learning Japanese).

I msg several people using face book or whatsapp etc, and several people replied thank you. Some of these replies (from 春敏, 妙嫻，禮宣，etc) still makes me a little happier than usual

For the first day of the New Year, I spent the morning going to my dad’s house, and the afternoon doing housecleaning. Only when I do housecleaning, things that I thought is missing for several months suddenly appear (春聯) 。I gathered and reviewed the number of diaries I have written only the 18 years, some memories unforgettable. I relocate them in a new place and I should read them whenever am free

On the second day of the New Year, I went to Chinese garden for a QSN activity. It’s a good start for a New Year as we gather to prepare for the Chinese New Year song. Guess what. Friends are sometimes useful when coming together to do meaningful things.

Looking forward, I should still strive to be quiet most of the time and learn as much as I can. I should be going to Japanese placement test this coming Saturday at Bunka language school.

For my wishes, I should write in Japanese

みなさんは, 明けましておめでとう 新年の願い, 世界平和を欲しいで、そして今年、彼女はあります 今で、貯金で、のでこの四月, 韓国に旅行んです

一個人也會很開心，God bless every time , all the time

慧台

2016 最後的blog

很快的，2016年就要接近尾聲了。和以往一樣，我還是在馬來西亞渡過了一個愉快的聖誕節，有點意外的得到一個很普通的聖誕禮物，但因為特別的人送的禮物，所以開心還是會有一點吧。祝我的朋友，聖誕節快樂

今天，難得在家休息，想想今天得與失吧。今年是一個不太愉快的一年。很多時候，都是一個人在家，自已做自已的事吧。樂觀來看，在家或許是省錢的方法。自已的習性，該改的還沒有改，來來又去去。想戀愛的感覺，還是去不掉，但和自已說，找東西忙，難過的感覺就會少一點吧。

車到現在，下半年就壞了四次(德明和聖喜有幫忙出一點)，但還好沒有駕車去馬來西亞，如果死火在半路上，可就倒大霉了。什麼事都有上天美好的安排。

學日文，沒有什麼進展。但時常努力，希望不要把學會的忘了吧。看書也少，特別是下半年。運動近來也少。

最後，我只想說，過去不能再回來了，最重要是現在的我，應該做什麼，(要做正確的事)，少想一些不開心的事。工作近來忙，能賺加班錢的話，也是好事。但如果少過四個小時(漍不到加班錢)，就當做送給公司，只要公司生意，就好了。

明年不會有太大的變化，靜下來，學會自已愛自已。多運動，多看書、多省錢，一個人也會很開心的。

GOD　ｂｌｅｓｓ　ａｌｌ　ｔｈｅ　ｔｉｍｅ　 慧臺

冬天的幻想旅行 (韓國之行)

又是2016年的最後一個月了，很想可以去看下雪的地方 從 JEJU ISLAND

BUSAN

SEOUL

最後來說，近來很忙。;忙到應該做的東西都做不到。和自已說，常常保持著樂觀的心境。什麼事，船到橋頭自然直. 希望不久的將來，能去到下雪的地方，2018年去日本？

不會談戀愛的，一個人也要很開心

god bless all the time

ECP outing 2016( december)

The outing for 2016 initally was planned for June, but due to the busy schedules for most of my friends, the outing has been delayed for a couple time (until I thought it would have been totally cancelled for this year

Finally , we managed to confirm the last available timing for the year ( there are friends unavailable too, but we can only hope to see them next year) , about the venue of the outing , initial planning is to go to johor , but then after several changes made, the organizer decide we should go laser tag ( similar to paint ball , but not painful , that’s what I was being told)

We (jurong people ) meet at Jurong east mrt , in which we took Mrt and bus to East Coast park. We reached east coast park on 1015am to meet up with the rest of the people. Only when we arrived , the organizers decide that the laser tag would be too expensive ( 35 dollars for 45 minutes ), we end up doing cycling again

We proceed to rent some bicycle (two of them rented a scooter) for 3 hours(1130-1430 hours ). We cycled in a group towards marina barrage, but during the interval, we stop quite a few times, so that people behind can catch up, I guess we spent almost 30 percent of the time waiting. In the end , we didn’t make it to the barrage , and we just stop at at area near there to take a group photo. Finally at around 1250pm , we turn back

During the return trip , mingxian fall down and got injured (that’s a sad thing). We return the bike at 2oclock, and we dispersed for lunch. Half of us went to paya lebar to eat , and I went home by myself after that.

Looking backwards, its is a pretty good cycling trip , and probably good for exercise. But concerning team bonding wise , we didn’t talk as much as the outing in 2015 (probably nobody is free enough to prepare food for us to eat together ( and talk together?) and probably lack of team bonding games as well.

In conclusion , this is probably the only outing (for ME ) for the year 2016. I should tell myself , try to be happy all the time, if I cant find reason to be happy , I should keep quiet and stay away .

一個人也會很開心

GOD BLESS all the time

慧台

平靜的11月

经过两个旅行之后，又回到了普通的生活了。这个月整体还算平静吧，工作近来都比较忙，日语方面，学习的力度减少了。上一次在学校交的朋友都联络不上(不想和自已联係吧，italki所认识的朋友也没有消息了。告诉自已，如果不见努力，或许会把学的，真的还给老师了。

近来牙也有痛的感觉，来来去去的感觉，不想去看牙医，只有用司徒先生讲的原点，有一点效果吧，但好几个晚上，一躺下来，牙就痛，再不行，只能吃止痛药了。

旅行方面，在中国的行程后，有和同事讲起他们的经历。之后，感觉他们的想法和自已不太一样。有时候，人多的时候，旅行起来也有一定的不方便(互向等待)，下一次如果还有这样的旅行，就选择自已走比较好吧。

接下的旅行，要开始想去韩国了。幻想的12 月旅行，和真实的明年四月份，都值的慢慢去想，这次的旅行(5-15号)，冬天的旅行还是最开心的。(jeju island)

busan

seoul

最后，今年已经很久没有运动了。现在的脚比较好了，是时候，去跑步或游泳了。告诉自已，什麽时候，都要努力自已，没有朋友陪，就自已陪自已吧。父母开心最重要，其他方面，能省则省。世上没有过不去的路，忍忍就过了。一個人也可以很開心

God bless all the time 慧台

Alan’s wedding (nov 2016)

5th November 2016

Today as a Saturday is my long time buddy (Alan’s) wedding. he and his wife has been in a low profile relationships for several years before deciding to tie the knob in this year ( I remember seeing his wife once during the 2011 GE , at the workers party rally). Today I still felt thankful to be able to attend their small scaled wedding ceremony

In the morning, I took some breakfast before going to Holiday Inn Singapore Atrium to meet Alan (at 0830am). Two of his friends came around 0900am. We were being briefed on what to expect on the birthday lunch later (although the bridegroom wasn’t very sure on many details).

I went to the ballroom with his friends (Seth). The ballroom is relevant big, but there is only 6 tables presume there will be an owner table, one table for relatives of the bridegroom, 3 tables for the relatives of the bride, and the last table for “friend”.

Since Alan did not prepare vegetarian and Muslim food for the lunch (additional cost), so I can’t eat at the lunch buffet. Alan decide to treat me to early lunch outside (near his house ) at around 11am , I fetch the bridegroom , his sis and his mom to the wedding venue

The wedding started around 1230pm, I was supposed to be tasked to take care of Alan’s mother , but in the last minute , Alan’s elder sister decide to do the job instead . Since I had nothing to do, I started going around taking photos. Almost all of the people attending were relatives (20odd for the bride side) and around 10 from the groom side) to my surprise, only three friends were invited (and one of them is me). I didn’t see any beautiful ladies (only two teenage girls) and the rest elderly (sad).

The lunch started around 1245 hours. It started with solemnization ceremony, followed by the tea ceremony. Fortunately, there weren’t any hiccup as feared by Alan in the morning. After that, there is the buffet for an hour or so.

The event ends around 1430 hours. Both Alan and his bride looks for places to take photo, but then the hotel had very few places to be able to take nice photos, finally the session ends at 1545 hours.

Looking backwards, it’s a good experience trying to help out in such joyful event. From the couples feedback that they are too busy that they are unable to eat anything on the table. Things would be better if there are a few more “brothers and sisters”. After this round, I think there won’t be any marriage to attend this year or next. Tianwei’s marriage would probably come in the year 2018. My marriage? No hope ..

Wedding aside, my car experiencing some problem for the third times in recent months, hope the car do spoilt less often. But then I won’t be driving to Malaysia in the year end thing (taking bus would be a better option)

I should stop here for now

一個人也可以很開心，GOD bless all the time 慧台