On the 23rd Feb, I decided to go for a 2nd matchmaking interview in my lifetime. It was 9 years since I last visited such agency. I booked an appointment at 7pm in the evening with the lady called Kaile at Gaigai Pte Ltd (previously called Paktor), venue at Cecil Street (very close to raffles place)
The whole interview took around an hour, and the lady was indeed sincere and helpful.
From the start, we started with some surveys based on what my personality is and what kind of girls I would have hoped to meet. Such requirement’s questions are always difficult to answer, I wish I had the chance to meet with girls around my height, probably a little taller then myself(158-165cm), average size(not too thin), pretty and cute , joyful most of the time and occasionally childish. She should be a Chinese, non smoker and preferably a vegetarian, the most important criteria would that she should love me. From the above criteria, I believe it would be easy to find this type of girls, but question is, would they like me? (Probably not, I think). If I would want to put up a photo on my ideal girl, I would put up 劉五朵。She’ 170cm tall (too tall) and a non vegetarian.i hope i could meet someone similar to 五朵，but a little shorter. Dreams are only beautiful when they don’t come true.
The second part comes about the cost or to say price package for the dating services. It was simply expensive, especially the fleek image course (worth 2K+ for 12 hours). It can be argued that the money is worth spending as we are getting professional help, but then, I can only say, my budget simply won’t allow me to do so (that’s my fault ). Next on the one to one date, that would be another 2K ++ for minimum 3 dates (for a year subscription). The question again for myself, will I get 3 dates? From the past experiences, I got only 1 date from the minimum 3, and I didn’t get any refund for the dates I missed out. For now, I need to think again.
Cost wise, I wonder why dating services had been so expensive in Singapore. while I understand that people working in this dating services also needs to earn a living , make enough money to cover rental charges and to make some profits, but then the question is , is dating a kind of social services or purely business entity? If the government doesn’t step in to help fund some significant portion of these costs, I seriously believe majority of the public would not have the spare cash to consider such options.
Looking forward, I could only reject the offer for now. My cash has been tight down either due to Japanese studies, holiday or car buying. I hope that I could still hold on to the belief (雞年有機會). The moment after I settled my car buying, and when I have the extra cash, I should give such option a try too. Before that, I might just participate in some small events (which chances are much lower). I should try a little harder this year, and if things don’t go out well, at least , I must convinced myself that this is fate, I should stay single for the rest of my life.
Finally,I should start thinking of the imaginary trip to Eastern Europe. I should post some photos of Rome and hope one fine day , I should visit Italy
Be positive , 一個人也要很開心
God bless all the time , 慧台
到那里2115分了，因为自已的温度还在38度以上，很快就看到医生了。医生看了之后，除了验血，x-rAy 之外，就直接打针，烧在15分之内就退了。还好不用住院，也没有被蚊了咬，才放心的回家。之后还休息到星期一。
这一次是我人生中病最久的一次吧，有些朋友有在岗上留言(问候)，也有不闻不问的人。同事也没有人问起(除了AUNTIE以外)，大家忙都到把自已忘了？和自已说，好的人事物境要常放在心上，不如意的事情，不要去想它。今年要想出路了。
最后，再想想旅行 ( Venice & Vienna)
今天是一个非常困难的一年，和自已说，不谈恋爱了，一个人必须过得开心，忙该忙的东西，没有过不去的路。
慧台
在女生当中，最少有两位已经结婚了。样貌方面，只有一位样子看起来比较可以，但重点是，同学大概都不太友善(特别是坐我旁边的女生，从开始，就脸黑黑的。)
能认识到新的朋友吗？只能看一步，走一步。)。学日语方面，造句子对自已来说，还是有相当难度的(日本语文章を作るはとても难しいです)，但努力之下，还是可以的吧，我想。
恋情方面，我正式回应拒绝了介绍所的好意，他们也没给于其他的建议了。或许在新加坡而言，恋爱只能自已努力，没有钱給，就不能要求他人的帮忙。工作方面，还好吧。但从今年起，或许要开始想新的出路。机会是要自已去找的，好或不好，只有走过，才会知道。气车到这个月25号就要「杀」了，这几个月都要省钱，希望七月能买到新车。
想想，四月的意大利之行(第二段)，感觉还是会开心一点
最后，我喜欢的感觉，五朵的生日又要到了，在这里，要祝福她，身休健康，教书要开心，能漂亮好一阵子。
一個人也要很開心 ，God bless all the time
慧台
The whole interview took around an hour, and the lady was indeed sincere and helpful.
From the start, we started with some surveys based on what my personality is and what kind of girls I would have hoped to meet. Such requirement’s questions are always difficult to answer, I wish I had the chance to meet with girls around my height, probably a little taller then myself(158-165cm), average size(not too thin), pretty and cute , joyful most of the time and occasionally childish. She should be a Chinese, non smoker and preferably a vegetarian, the most important criteria would that she should love me. From the above criteria, I believe it would be easy to find this type of girls, but question is, would they like me? (Probably not, I think). If I would want to put up a photo on my ideal girl, I would put up 劉五朵。She’ 170cm tall (too tall) and a non vegetarian.i hope i could meet someone similar to 五朵，but a little shorter. Dreams are only beautiful when they don’t come true.
The second part comes about the cost or to say price package for the dating services. It was simply expensive, especially the fleek image course (worth 2K+ for 12 hours). It can be argued that the money is worth spending as we are getting professional help, but then, I can only say, my budget simply won’t allow me to do so (that’s my fault ). Next on the one to one date, that would be another 2K ++ for minimum 3 dates (for a year subscription). The question again for myself, will I get 3 dates? From the past experiences, I got only 1 date from the minimum 3, and I didn’t get any refund for the dates I missed out. For now, I need to think again.
Cost wise, I wonder why dating services had been so expensive in Singapore. while I understand that people working in this dating services also needs to earn a living , make enough money to cover rental charges and to make some profits, but then the question is , is dating a kind of social services or purely business entity? If the government doesn’t step in to help fund some significant portion of these costs, I seriously believe majority of the public would not have the spare cash to consider such options.
Looking forward, I could only reject the offer for now. My cash has been tight down either due to Japanese studies, holiday or car buying. I hope that I could still hold on to the belief (雞年有機會). The moment after I settled my car buying, and when I have the extra cash, I should give such option a try too. Before that, I might just participate in some small events (which chances are much lower). I should try a little harder this year, and if things don’t go out well, at least , I must convinced myself that this is fate, I should stay single for the rest of my life.
Finally,I should start thinking of the imaginary trip to Eastern Europe. I should post some photos of Rome and hope one fine day , I should visit Italy
Be positive , 一個人也要很開心
God bless all the time , 慧台
礼拜天，自已也有过去二伯那里拜年。有看到阿ni 堂哥，也拿了两个红包。二伯母有问起我的父亲，也是好事。她也留了两大包铁罐(ALU CAN), 让父亲可以拿去卖。亲戚能关心一下也是好事。或许是很久没有见面了．所以没有什麽话题讲，只能看电视节目，坐了45分就回了。
这一次过年，共收到了22个红包(共428元)。有多的，也有少的。但我觉得心意最重要。我把全部放在一面来拆，就不会知道，谁给多少钱(少一些比较的心态吧)。这笔钱就省下来，准备六月份时买车的费用。
日语方面，终于拿到了2月28号, 回到LINGO去读 Pre intermediate 1. 花了350元，政府的钱听说只可以用在basic而已，想想，花点钱，只希望学过的东西，不要忘记，和自已说，努力再努力。
接下来，情人节就要到了。每年在这段时候，就特别想有一个恋情。我的朋友．和我喜欢的人，不是已经和别人拍拖了，不然就是开始拍拖了。除了为他们开心之外，对自已单身还有有些伤感。前几天，忍不住SIGN UP gaigai offline dating platform. 23号要去到那里的办工室面试。心里不免担心多多，会不找到一个女友呢？还是要花很多钱？不论如何，乐观，走一步、看一步。没有希望，就不会失望，就当做拿了经验，用来写BLOG就好。
有空的时候，尽量找东西学，不论是学日语、学画脸、学唱歌等笒，只要忙多一些，恋爱的慾望就少一些。学会「永言配命，自求多福。」
最后，情人节要到了，祝我的朋友(和我喜欢的远方女孩)有一个快乐的情人节，祝春敏、妙娴、佳敏、礼宣、等等，情人节快乐。当然也要祝贺自已开心。今年送花是没有希望了，就送给自已吧。
写到这里，一个人也可以很开心的 , God bless all the time
慧台
新年的第一天，在家。没有出去拜年(在家做重要的事)，也没有人来自已家拜年。看样子，会和以往的几年都一样(没有人来拜年)。但乐观一些，人家不来，我出去(拜年)，去了三位朋友的家，也是好事(收了一些红包)。初三也是忙碌的一天，下午去到同学家(Gouliang)家拜年。那里坐了2个多小时，有看到好几位以前中学的同学。大家都在讲买屋子的事情(自已几时会买呢？)再想想吧，也有看到raine吧, 她已经两个孩子的妈了，时间也过得真快。有玩一下牌，没有希望会赢，没有输就好了。到1715分才回。
初四晚上，有和母亲去两个邻居家拜年。楼上的邻居有问起自已几时结婚(大概只有长辈会问的问题吧)，也有建议，可以找越南的女孩。自已在想，可能吗？最少在想像的未来，不会考虑吧。如果是单身的命(也就算了)。但有人会问，总是一件好的事情 (只为朋友们从来不会问自已这样的问题，或许也相信是不会有人喜欢的)
有空的时候，都处走走，有去一下jurong point。傍晚，有去日本花圆运动一下，很久没有跑步了，现在的自已只可以慢跑吧，拍了一些照片，让自已开心，
和自已说，只有做对的东西，就足够了。诗云：「永言配命，自求多福」
写到这里，一个人也要很开心，God bless all the time
慧台
